Sensitive Romance advice (1 Viewer)

[sweetmochiiiii]

I’m I the only one that feels super single while everyone else is happy with their love life?

 

[Horizonshard]

Your time will come. It's best to find the right person, not just any person!

 

[seoriverse]

i've never had a crush... very happy just watching my friends gush about the middest men known to earth

 

[athenaaa]

It can happen at any moment, honestly I wasn’t expecting it to happen. You have all the time in the world For now focus on meaningful relationships with friends and yourself and don’t force yourself to date just anyone. The right person will come when you least expect it.

 

[Selfmate]

how old are you my friend and how many relationships have you been in?

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

Your time will come. It's best to find the right person, not just any person!

I know but I can’t help feel like it would take forever 🥲

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

i've never had a crush... very happy just watching my friends gush about the middest men known to earth

I’m happy when I see my friends do that too 😂

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

how old are you my friend and how many relationships have you been in?

I’ve never been in a relationship 🥲

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

I’ve never been in a relationship 🥲

I’m old enough to understand the complications of love ❤

 

[Horizonshard]

I know but I can’t help feel like it would take forever 🥲

But rushing into things just to "not be single" is how you end up in the wrong situations.

Make sure you are comfortable with and love yourself first, and everything will happen naturally.

 

[Selfmate]

I’ve never been in a relationship 🥲

I’m old enough to understand the complications of love ❤

then with all due respect I doubt it...

love is an emotion - you can read about it - you can watch it on tv and movies and hear people sign about it
but unless and until you've experienced the real thing and loss that comes from it all one has is knowledge...

and knowledge = \ = experience

and hence why I asked how old you are since you said everyone around you is happy - does that mean they're happily married or long term stable relationships???

 

[MK3AM]

yes but then i have anxiety being in a relationship

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

But rushing into things just to "not be single" is how you end up in the wrong situations.

Make sure you are comfortable with and love yourself first, and everything will happen naturally.

I never thought of it that way. I guess I was trying to just rush things 😅

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

then with all due respect I doubt it...

love is an emotion - you can read about it - you can watch it on tv and movies and hear people sign about it
but unless and until you've experienced the real thing and loss that comes from it all one has is knowledge...

and knowledge = \ = experience

and hence why I asked how old you are since you said everyone around you is happy - does that mean they're happily married or long term stable relationships???

Like they are in stable relationships

 

[Selfmate]

Like they are in stable relationships

good for them how long...weeks months years???

romance is a very complicated topic - listen to horizonshard he seems to know what he's talking about

and remember my friend do not compare your situation with others - even your friends or whatever...

if the fish judged itself by the actions of the bird then they will forever think themselves stupid for not being able to fly

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

good for them how long...weeks months years???

romance is a very complicated topic - listen to horizonshard he seems to know what he's talking about

and remember my friend do not compare your situation with others - even your friends or whatever...

if the fish judged itself by the actions of the bird then they will forever think themselves stupid for not being able to fly

For years now

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

good for them how long...weeks months years???

romance is a very complicated topic - listen to horizonshard he seems to know what he's talking about

and remember my friend do not compare your situation with others - even your friends or whatever...

if the fish judged itself by the actions of the bird then they will forever think themselves stupid for not being able to fly

Yes that is true, I think I realized that I was just jealous for that kind of love.

 

[Deleted member 74]

I feel you, not because I haven't experienced a relationship before but because I never really felt romance or a sense of closeness? and it's hard to form crushes or an attachment for me other than very short term since I'm naturally like that, but I say don't rush into anything, I think it's better to be single than to find yourself stuck in a bad or unwanted situation, when you least expect it the right person will show up in your life c: in the meantime, work on yourself and focus on other things, fate has its way of coming in when you're not looking~

 

[Selfmate]

For years now

Yes that is true, I think I realized that I was just jealous for that kind of love.

then focus on yourself and making yourself the best sweetmochiii you can be...one day you too will experience that kind of relationship...

 

[sweetmochiiiii]

I feel you, not because I haven't experienced a relationship before but because I never really felt romance or a sense of closeness? and it's hard to form crushes or an attachment for me other than very short term since I'm naturally like that, but I say don't rush into anything, I think it's better to be single than to find yourself stuck in a bad or unwanted situation, when you least expect it the right person will show up in your life c: in the meantime, work on yourself and focus on other things, fate has its way of coming in when you're not looking~

I thought I was only like that. Someone who can’t create a close bond with people as well as keep it long term. I don’t know why but people become distant after I know them for a short time. I get sad because it seems like I can’t make any friends. 😭