someone who had many ex is a huge turn off (1 Viewer)

[burnenemy]

for me

what abt you?

it just means that the person

1) never liked anyone deeply
2) maybe doing monkey branching out out of loneliness ,despo etc etc

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

It's not a turn-off for me unless they start saying all their exes are crazy and that's why the relationships ended. That's usually a huge red flag.

 

[ADORA]

I've only had one ex

 

[burnenemy]

I've only had one ex

ok,me like u

 

[ADORA]

ok,me like u

Oh you Me too

 

[burnenemy]

It's not a turn-off for me unless they start saying all their exes are crazy and that's why the relationships ended. That's usually a huge red flag.

but but maybe that's true .some ppl are fated to meet crazy ppl in life

 

[Areum]

I've only had one ex

Same!
Also, who's that in your sig?

 

[burnenemy]

Oh you Me too

but but i dont have ex unless if you consider my crazy perverted internut ex who was in same school with me yet only talk to me in internut as my ex

 

[ADORA]

Same!
Also, who's that in your sig?

Sonoki my fav J-pop group

 

[ADORA]

but but i dont have ex unless if you consider my crazy perverted internut ex who was in same school with me yet only talk to me in internut as my ex

I guess that counts

 

[Areum]

Sonoki my fav J-pop group

Which group is it? My fav J-pop group is NiziU

 

[ADORA]

Which group is it? My fav J-pop group is NiziU

Sonoki is the group

 

[Areum]

Sonoki is the group

Ah ok, I thought you meant that was the girl's name

 

[ADORA]

Ah ok, I thought you meant that was the girl's name

No I meant that was the group

 

[SHlNEE]

for me

what abt you?

it just means that the person

1) never liked anyone deeply
2) maybe doing monkey branching out out of loneliness ,despo etc etc

but hang on
what if its the other way around and someone really liked all 5 of them a lot but they were unlucky and all 5 turned out to be bitches or jackasses
which is why the relationships ended

how can it be a turn off when in some cases its really just bad luck some people only meet assholes

i mean sure, no one is perfect and the person who is so unlucky also has flaws like the bitches and assholes but surely there are cases where nice decent good people meet too many bad people, would you still think like , its a turn off then?

what im trying to say is, you never know why someone has got more exes than another
just because someone only got 1 ex does not mean they way better than one who got 5 or something

 

[Sana]

Not sure about it. Also depends on the age. If someone had 3 exes at the age of 35 I wouldn't be concerned at all, but having had 3 exes at the age of 16 might be weird.

My ex had like 3 or 4 bfs before me, got together with another boy 1 month after, they broke up and now she's got another guy for 2 years. She's now with her 6th or 7th boyfriend at the age of 22 - which is a lot to me.
I'm still somehow bound to her and she was the one who really got me into the Netherlands, funny thing I might study near her but I'll never see her.

Things turn out to be crazy sometimes I guess.



Sometimes I'm really sad about the fact I Iost my virginity to her, but it was me who left her, so that's nothing I should worry about.



I'd also be concerned if someone never had a relationship when they hit 25. Kinda sus

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

but but maybe that's true .some ppl are fated to meet crazy ppl in life

I don't think that's a thing. Most of the time if they say all their exes were crazy-ass bitches/bastards it usually means they were the problem, not their exes. It's a tactic used to make them seem sane and like their previous partners were the problems. On top of that if you keep getting kicked out of people's lives and thinking those people are the issue, not you....you usually are the issue for the most part.

Being blind to your faults is a massive turn-off. Not having a bunch of exes for me.

 

[MinKarat]

I guess I can understand since typically people who have had many exs tend to be unstable or maybe unlucky
and I've seen a lot of people who date a different person every week or every month and I think that's kinda concerning, I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship with that kind of person since its unlikely that I'd be able to change them and we'd just break up soon after so I'd rather not waste my time on someone like that

 

[burnenemy]

but hang on
what if its the other way around and someone really liked all 5 of them a lot but they were unlucky and all 5 turned out to be bitches or jackasses
which is why the relationships ended

how can it be a turn off when in some cases its really just bad luck some people only meet assholes

i mean sure, no one is perfect and the person who is so unlucky also has flaws like the bitches and assholes but surely there are cases where nice decent good people meet too many bad people, would you still think like , its a turn off then?

what im trying to say is, you never know why someone has got more exes than another
just because someone only got 1 ex does not mean they way better than one who got 5 or something

that still means that they can fall in love easily

 

[burnenemy]

Not sure about it. Also depends on the age. If someone had 3 exes at the age of 35 I wouldn't be concerned at all, but having had 3 exes at the age of 16 might be weird.

My ex had like 3 or 4 bfs before me, got together with another boy 1 month after, they broke up and now she's got another guy for 2 years. She's now with her 6th or 7th boyfriend at the age of 22 - which is a lot to me.
I'm still somehow bound to her and she was the one who really got me into the Netherlands, funny thing I might study near her but I'll never see her.

Things turn out to be crazy sometimes I guess.



Sometimes I'm really sad about the fact I Iost my virginity to her, but it was me who left her, so that's nothing I should worry about.



I'd also be concerned if someone never had a relationship when they hit 25. Kinda sus

imma never had any relationship except that internut bf

but i just rarely like anyone plus most ppl are sloppy ,unattractive and judgy

saves my time