someone who had many ex is a huge turn off (1 Viewer)

[burnenemy]

I don't think that's a thing. Most of the time if they say all their exes were crazy-ass bitches/bastards it usually means they were the problem, not their exes. It's a tactic used to make them seem sane and like their previous partners were the problems. On top of that if you keep getting kicked out of people's lives and thinking those people are the issue, not you....you usually are the issue for the most part.

Being blind to your faults is a massive turn-off. Not having a bunch of exes for me.

u said 'most'

so provided that they are dumped?

 

[burnenemy]

I guess I can understand since typically people who have had many exs tend to be unstable or maybe unlucky
and I've seen a lot of people who date a different person every week or every month and I think that's kinda concerning, I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship with that kind of person since its unlikely that I'd be able to change them and we'd just break up soon after so I'd rather not waste my time on someone like that

that's what i mean

even worse if they get somone a week after break up

some ppl date even if they have no feeling towards others .that's terrible

 

[SHlNEE]

that still means that they can fall in love easily

depends how old they are
and even so, how the fak does that even matter
does not make people less than others

 

[Abeamus]

I don't think it really matters as much as the reason behind them since someone can be trying to go for a serious relationship but end up with people who aren't looking for anything serious and in that scenario you can't blame the first for that so it's all about knowing what each person wants out of a relationship before getting in one with them.

 

[burnenemy]

depends how old they are
and even so, how the fak does that even matter
does not make people less than others

fall in love quivkly = fall out of love quickly

simple

 

[burnenemy]

I don't think it really matters as much as the reason behind them since someone can be trying to go for a serious relationship but end up with people who aren't looking for anything serious and in that scenario you can't blame the first for that so it's all about knowing what each person wants out of a relationship before getting in one with them.

they still fall in love easily

 

[Abeamus]

they still fall in love easily

I think you're talking about an extreme situation which having extremely high standards is just a bad, you need everything in moderation

 

[burnenemy]

I think you're talking about an extreme situation which having extremely high standards is just a bad, you need everything in moderation

love is an intense feeling

it is either yes or no

whatever- i dont date cat or dog who 'needs time' to fall in love and then blaming others for not giving time

plenty of other ppl want me

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

u said 'most'

so provided that they are dumped?

I don't understand the question lol

 

[mysteric]

idk depends on the person
some aren't looking for anything serious and as along as they make it clear from the get-go and the other party is fine with that, I personally see no problem with that; not all relationships have to be serious serious imo
that being said, short flings aren't for me, whatever
it's the "all my exs are crazy" people that I can't take seriously

 

[burnenemy]

idk depends on the person
some aren't looking for anything serious and as along as they make it clear from the get-go and the other party is fine with that, I personally see no problem with that; not all relationships have to be serious serious imo
that being said, short flings aren't for me, whatever
it's the "all my exs are crazy" people that I can't take seriously

then it is not a love relationship