For any of y’all looking for an oppa you need to know how it is. Basically all the high quality men are immediately snatched. Literally every handsome and decently attractive man has a Korean woman on his side as they go from restaurant to cafe to motel. They are very clingy in public. If he’s not with someone yet there’s women orbiting him while in fierce competition against each other.
Then there’s married men who are always at work most of the day and at the bars at night. This just leaves mostly senior citizens occupying most of the streets in the daytime.
Then the incel type guys, they’re either at the PC gaming rooms or at their online communities seething about women.
And average looking guys with good personalities will have a lot of women in their late 20s/30s vying for them because they want to settle soon and not be the last woman in their friend group who isn’t married yet.
This leaves the Seungri/“fuckboy” types who their society allowed them to take advantage of women, especially at night. They seek foreign women just to brag to their friends about it, and definitely don’t want a long term relationship with one.
This is why if you search “why I left Korea” or “dating in Korea” in YouTube you’ll encounter a lot of horror stories of women who were emotionally broken in Korea, from loneliness and bad experiences. This is the sad fact, unless you are a white blonde blue eyed woman with model-like looks it will be extremely difficult to find your ideal oppa. Even then, it’s not easy because even they have to deal with the torturous Korean immigration.
Then there’s married men who are always at work most of the day and at the bars at night. This just leaves mostly senior citizens occupying most of the streets in the daytime.
Then the incel type guys, they’re either at the PC gaming rooms or at their online communities seething about women.
And average looking guys with good personalities will have a lot of women in their late 20s/30s vying for them because they want to settle soon and not be the last woman in their friend group who isn’t married yet.
This leaves the Seungri/“fuckboy” types who their society allowed them to take advantage of women, especially at night. They seek foreign women just to brag to their friends about it, and definitely don’t want a long term relationship with one.
This is why if you search “why I left Korea” or “dating in Korea” in YouTube you’ll encounter a lot of horror stories of women who were emotionally broken in Korea, from loneliness and bad experiences. This is the sad fact, unless you are a white blonde blue eyed woman with model-like looks it will be extremely difficult to find your ideal oppa. Even then, it’s not easy because even they have to deal with the torturous Korean immigration.