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I've already had grievances with my girlfriend not taking my concerns and issues with her seriously and it's starting to build up.
The last time something like this happened I gave her the silent treatment which wasnt the best choice of action im retrospect so I need to plan something different now
I mentioned experiencing harassment from male students in my school before in an earlier thread and how it made me uncomfortable https://kpopsource.com/threads/boys-at-my-school-are-so-odd.250388/
This was before we started winter brewk at the time and knowing that my gf is somewhat acquainted with the two I wanted to address it to her because I assumed telling her about this experience would at least trouble or concern her some bit anything but her seeming dismissive and saying the classic "well I don't have a problem with them"
At the moment I just laughed it off because there were too many onlookers to make a scene and I didn't realize how much it bothered me until now
What do you mean "i don't have a problem with him"? He's going out of his way to harass your partner and somehow that doesn't bother you? I simply wish she would raise her standards and keep better people close. I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but holy hell how can you just blatantly be so shitty? I can try to talk to her but the last time it felt like words went through one ear and out the other. I'm beginning to think she takes me more as a comedian and not a person so every experience I have is either funny or she has no feedback on it
Should I talk it out or just ignore it because I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall when we need to talk seriously
I don't wanna seem like a control freak boyfriend upset at my girl for not having the curated friend circle I choose, but I feel like in this instance I am objectively right in thinking these boys are bad news and offer nothing of value to her life
The last time something like this happened I gave her the silent treatment which wasnt the best choice of action im retrospect so I need to plan something different now
I mentioned experiencing harassment from male students in my school before in an earlier thread and how it made me uncomfortable https://kpopsource.com/threads/boys-at-my-school-are-so-odd.250388/
This was before we started winter brewk at the time and knowing that my gf is somewhat acquainted with the two I wanted to address it to her because I assumed telling her about this experience would at least trouble or concern her some bit anything but her seeming dismissive and saying the classic "well I don't have a problem with them"
At the moment I just laughed it off because there were too many onlookers to make a scene and I didn't realize how much it bothered me until now
What do you mean "i don't have a problem with him"? He's going out of his way to harass your partner and somehow that doesn't bother you? I simply wish she would raise her standards and keep better people close. I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but holy hell how can you just blatantly be so shitty? I can try to talk to her but the last time it felt like words went through one ear and out the other. I'm beginning to think she takes me more as a comedian and not a person so every experience I have is either funny or she has no feedback on it
Should I talk it out or just ignore it because I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall when we need to talk seriously
I don't wanna seem like a control freak boyfriend upset at my girl for not having the curated friend circle I choose, but I feel like in this instance I am objectively right in thinking these boys are bad news and offer nothing of value to her life
