This woman won't quit (1 Viewer)

[kisshuhua09baby]

To cut to the chase, yes, this is another thread about her. But if you wish to skip because of the influx of my posts about her, that's fine.
Yesterday I was feeling a bit off/down so I went to talk in my server. I went in the #vent channel and I had vented about her. When I do this in servers the ppl there might chime in and try to talk with me regarding whatever I said. One of the server members (I'll call them CB) had asked if I wanted to talk in dms and I agreed and we started talking about it. But as we progressed the conversation started feeling way to personal and I felt like CB was familiar but I couldn't put my finger on it. But then at some point while speaking with her I got a notification that my ex added me back and that's when I realized this girl in my server was up to no good.

CB added me to a gc with my ex and my ex said she wanted to talk. I have no problem with this on paper, however, we hadn't spoken in weeks which isn't that long but it was long enough for me to think she didn't care about me anymore. (Apparently, I was wrong). She started off saying she was sorry if I felt hurt by anything she did but I wasn't having any of it and came into the interaction with a sour attitude. Fast forward a few sentences I sarcastically called her a b#txh and yeah not a lot of people would take to that kindly but her reaction was completely overdramatized. She said "b#txh? the same word you called my mother 4 times" And that felt so unnecessary and victimizing to me because this wasn't about her mother this was supposed to be about the two of us and stay between the two of us. But when I called her out on it she just deflected onto me and went on the same gaslighting tirade she always does when I express issue with her behavior. Then she said "I thought about what ange and L said, and they're right. We don't work" And I was basically like yeah genius congrats for figuring out the obvious" And then she said something that immediately made me lose all respect for her and this discussion "I thought you said you had trouble understanding sarcasm because you're neurodivergent, but I guess that's another lie" I had no comment on that because anyone with a brain knows that was just stupid as hell to say. Then she started devolving into a whole different conversation saying "I didn't lose anything and you didn't lose anything so why vent about me" which immediately revealed to me (along with everything else I pieced together) that CB wasn't her friend and was just her alt acc which she later admitted. Then she just kept derailing my statements and trying to prove herself bla bla bla "I always loved you" just unimportant fluff

Then I had went silent in the gc because I was done talking. Then she sent a message asking if I was even still online and I said "no" and she replied "LOL" in all caps but I was done playing games so I reminded her that this wasn't a laughing matter and she got upset and went on ANOTHER tirade. And I explained to her that SHE made this proposal and SHE started this conversation so SHE needs to end it. She said "i wish we never met" And I said "That's the sweetest thing you've told me in a while" she got upset and then went on a rant calling me a manipulative liar, saying I make up my problems etc (mind you all of these things she did I criticized her for doing but she denied ever being this way)
Rest assured I wasn't bothered by the crocodile tears though, and kept a straight face. Then she closed things off calling me a weirdo and soon after I left the gc. I was so relieved but also tired. Then I went into the server to remove her alt account (+ her friend L's alt who she told me was also in the server) And I went on about my day. But this wasn't even the end of it.

Then I got a random message from L on TikTok and I did a huge apathetic eye-roll. I think it was around 22:50/10:50 and I was honestly getting ready to go sleep but alas I read the messages. Basically L was apologing on my ex's behalf for how she acted and I'm glad she did that. All in all this was frustrating and now I'm stressed out about who in my server might me friends with or know my ex and I honestly feel like I should shut it down but I'm fine as of right now

 

[DaisySkies]

i can't see

 

[SkylesDaughter]

when i first started reading i was gonna say "why would you call a girl a b**ch 😡" but i understand now... she's kinda scary ngl

 

[MK3AM]

To cut to the chase, yes, this is another thread about her. But if you wish to skip because of the influx of my posts about her, that's fine.
Yesterday I was feeling a bit off/down so I went to talk in my server. I went in the #vent channel and I had vented about her. When I do this in servers the ppl there might chime in and try to talk with me regarding whatever I said. One of the server members (I'll call them CB) had asked if I wanted to talk in dms and I agreed and we started talking about it. But as we progressed the conversation started feeling way to personal and I felt like CB was familiar but I couldn't put my finger on it. But then at some point while speaking with her I got a notification that my ex added me back and that's when I realized this girl in my server was up to no good.

CB added me to a gc with my ex and my ex said she wanted to talk. I have no problem with this on paper, however, we hadn't spoken in weeks which isn't that long but it was long enough for me to think she didn't care about me anymore. (Apparently, I was wrong). She started off saying she was sorry if I felt hurt by anything she did but I wasn't having any of it and came into the interaction with a sour attitude. Fast forward a few sentences I sarcastically called her a b#txh and yeah not a lot of people would take to that kindly but her reaction was completely overdramatized. She said "b#txh? the same word you called my mother 4 times" And that felt so unnecessary and victimizing to me because this wasn't about her mother this was supposed to be about the two of us and stay between the two of us. But when I called her out on it she just deflected onto me and went on the same gaslighting tirade she always does when I express issue with her behavior. Then she said "I thought about what ange and L said, and they're right. We don't work" And I was basically like yeah genius congrats for figuring out the obvious" And then she said something that immediately made me lose all respect for her and this discussion "I thought you said you had trouble understanding sarcasm because you're neurodivergent, but I guess that's another lie" I had no comment on that because anyone with a brain knows that was just stupid as hell to say. Then she started devolving into a whole different conversation saying "I didn't lose anything and you didn't lose anything so why vent about me" which immediately revealed to me (along with everything else I pieced together) that CB wasn't her friend and was just her alt acc which she later admitted. Then she just kept derailing my statements and trying to prove herself bla bla bla "I always loved you" just unimportant fluff

Then I had went silent in the gc because I was done talking. Then she sent a message asking if I was even still online and I said "no" and she replied "LOL" in all caps but I was done playing games so I reminded her that this wasn't a laughing matter and she got upset and went on ANOTHER tirade. And I explained to her that SHE made this proposal and SHE started this conversation so SHE needs to end it. She said "i wish we never met" And I said "That's the sweetest thing you've told me in a while" she got upset and then went on a rant calling me a manipulative liar, saying I make up my problems etc (mind you all of these things she did I criticized her for doing but she denied ever being this way)
Rest assured I wasn't bothered by the crocodile tears though, and kept a straight face. Then she closed things off calling me a weirdo and soon after I left the gc. I was so relieved but also tired. Then I went into the server to remove her alt account (+ her friend L's alt who she told me was also in the server) And I went on about my day. But this wasn't even the end of it.

Then I got a random message from L on TikTok and I did a huge apathetic eye-roll. I think it was around 22:50/10:50 and I was honestly getting ready to go sleep but alas I read the messages. Basically L was apologing on my ex's behalf for how she acted and I'm glad she did that. All in all this was frustrating and now I'm stressed out about who in my server might me friends with or know my ex and I honestly feel like I should shut it down but I'm fine as of right now

It seems like everything got resolved and I hope all the best for u and u get into a healthy relationship but if you're worried she will find a way back I would say delete the server and create a new one with close friends you know u can trust.

 

[kisshuhua09baby]

when i first started reading i was gonna say "why would you call a girl a b**ch 😡" but i understand now... she's kinda scary ngl

No, just draining. Glad I never gave her my kps