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Sometimes instead of replying with a rebuttal to their argument i take what they said and make it 2x worse and see if I can get them to agree with it
Do they usually go along? I'm so entertained by this idea. :lisalaugh:
 
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Yep, that was me in the past when I was like: I need to tell people that they're wrong! Because it could save the universe from temporal anomalies in the space-time-continuum!

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Lesson learned. Nowadays I tell people that they're wrong and I tell them why. Once! And then I leave the discussion.
 

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i try to ignore it but i've been beefing with someone for a week now cuz they were being rude to a fandom and threw accusations but they refuse to give the proof
Right! Some stuff is just rude and needs to be called out.

My personal pet peeve is when people jump on someone who made a general statement for not taking their personal situation into consideration, E.g. "Your tips for improving waffles are USELESS, have you considered that I am allergic to waffles and will literally DIE if I follow your recipe?!" Like jfc, someone was just talking to the void, it's not always about you.
 
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Right! Some stuff is just rude and needs to be called out.
For real like if you make an accusation, the least thing you can do is link your proof.
Person refuses to do it so I've been pushing their buttons for like a weeks now
 
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I used to argue with people a lot bc I just couldn't leave well enough be, but now that I've had therapy, I've learned to ignore it, unless I can say what I want in a less-than-rude manner. If I feel like a comment I'm about to make is rude or insensitive, I always pass it by my mom or caregiver.
 
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I am a BIG instigator sooooo
 
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I used to argue with people a lot bc I just couldn't leave well enough be, but now that I've had therapy, I've learned to ignore it, unless I can say what I want in a less-than-rude manner. If I feel like a comment I'm about to make is rude or insensitive, I always pass it by my mom or caregiver.
That's smart. I try to remind myself that I don't usually walk away from a negative interaction feeling better, but some things just get under my skin! It's a work in progress.
 
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I try to do what I do in real life in that the point isn't to prove someone else wrong regardless of what I believe them to be wrong since in the entire history of the internet how many people have come out and said "my bad you're right and I'm wrong"

the point is to have a discussion (respectfully) and ultimately it is up to the other person (or sometimes even oneself) to change one's opinions
 

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