News (TW: SELF-HARM) Mina attempted self-harm again, calls AOA members bystanders + unfollows them (1 Viewer)

[lexus]

She has made several Instagram posts as well. One has a blank photo of her explanation, another post is a photo of a new cut on her wrist, and the third has a caption claiming that she missed Jinri (Sulli).
(I do not recommend looking at the self-harm post. So be careful looking at her Instagram. The photo is blurred out when you go to her page, but if you click on it you'll see it. View it at your own discretion.

 

[lexus]

Honestly I'm just done with this group. The members just stood by and did nothing while Mina was suffering. The only one who even spoke up to Jimin was Hyejeong by asking her to apologize. Mina did absolutely NOTHING to deserve this.

I just can't stan this group anymore. I can never look at them the same way ever again. AOA can just disband now for all I care

 

[Drew_B]

I'm fucking terrified right now. Mina is going all out and I saw somewhere that said Mina mentioned missing Sulli.

If we lose another one to suicide I'm done with kpop. I swear to god im fucking done.

 

[VillageIdiot]

Puts an end to the "were they bystanders" question

 

[lexus]

I'm fucking terrified right now. Mina is going all out and I saw somewhere that said Mina mentioned missing Sulli.

If we lose another one to suicide I'm done with kpop. I swear to god im fucking done.

I'm scared for Mina as well. I've stanned this group for over 5 years and if something happens to Mina I'd be extremely heartbroken. I honestly hope the members for like shit for standing by and doing nothing

 

[lexus]

Puts an end to the "were they bystanders" question

Honestly I've kept wondering it too. I figured that they probably did, but I didn't want to make assumptions without knowing the full story. At least we know more to the story now I guess....

 

[OnlyCalB]

At least now people know and understand that AOA members did nothing.

AOA will more than likely disband, and their careers will probably come to an end too.

Other than Hyejeong I guess? If Mina has said Hyejeong is the only one that tried to help her then hopefully Hyejeong can still continue in the entertainment business. Mina & Hyejeong have been hanging out after Mina left AOA and have uploaded images together on social media and are known to be close.

FNC needs to be held accountable in part for their inaction.

I pray that Mina finds peace of mind and all the support she needs, to move past her dark thoughts.

 

[Darkseid]

Jesus Christ someone needs to be with Mina 24/7 coz this is really worrying. She shouldn't be living alone in this state, she's clearly still going through an extremely hard time.

Also yep, AOA. Done with that.

 

[Hajima]

This is starting to get really serious, I am starting to get worried hope Mina will reach to somebody....

Honestly I'm just done with this group. The members just stood by and did nothing while Mina was suffering. The only one who even spoke up to Jimin was Hyejeong by asking her to apologize. Mina did absolutely NOTHING to deserve this.

I just can't stan this group anymore. I can never look at them the same way ever again. AOA can just disband now for all I care

Yeah I am with you, AOA is done. hope they will disband. I will just support Choa from now on.

 

[Abeamus]

It always sounded like they were bystanders from the first posts like Mina mentioned them having a conversation about not knowing why Jimin hated her, now wouldn't that be a bizarre conversation to have if they knew nothing?

I hope Mina doesn't regret cutting the other members off though and that it helps her move forward.

 

[kodoku]

get better Mina <3

 

[Evergreen]

I am so worried for her. I hope that she have good people around her to take care of her and that she is seeing someone for her mental health.

 

[SnowWhite]

Looks like Jimin "bad-mouthed" Seolhyun too and she was dealing with that. That is bullying as well. Idk why she would deal with it? With the fame she had she didn't even need to be friends with Jimin. Could have easily left AOA and live comfortably.
I'm not even saying she should defend Mina bc as much as people may make it seem easy, defending someone from a bully isn't what most of us would do tbh. It's gonna cause huge trouble for you as well. I am just wondering why would she deal with Jimin bad-mouthing her and keep being her friend because someone swearing at me would indeed piss me off, even a close friend.

 

[Wonpil]

Mina needs to get real help :(

I hope everything gets better

 

[lexus]

At least now people know and understand that AOA members did nothing.

AOA will more than likely disband, and their careers will probably come to an end too.

Other than Hyejeong I guess? If Mina has said Hyejeong is the only one that tried to help her then hopefully Hyejeong can still continue in the entertainment business. Mina & Hyejeong have been hanging out after Mina left AOA and have uploaded images together on social media and are known to be close.

FNC needs to be held accountable in part for their inaction.

I pray that Mina finds peace of mind and all the support she needs, to move past her dark thoughts.

Hopefully nothing bad will happen to Hyejeong since she was actually standing up for Mina. It's good that they were still able to remain friends after she left the group. I don't wish for bad things to happen to the other members, but I honestly don't see their careers continuing on very well. Maybe Seolhyun will be fine because she's extremely popular, but maybe not. Also, I don't FNC will take accountability for this. They haven't done anything before so I doubt they'll do anything now :/

I just hope our lovely Mina will be okay 💙

 

[lexus]

Jesus Christ someone needs to be with Mina 24/7 coz this is really worrying. She shouldn't be living alone in this state, she's clearly still going through an extremely hard time.

Also yep, AOA. Done with that.

This is starting to get really serious, I am starting to get worried hope Mina will reach to somebody....
Yeah I am with you, AOA is done. hope they will disband. I will just support Choa from now on.

I am so worried for her. I hope that she have good people around her to take care of her and that she is seeing someone for her mental health.

I'm really worried for Mina too. A lot of the photos and post she's made are so heartbreaking that you can't help but worry about her. Let's just hope that she can get all the help that she needs in order to move on from her dark past..

 

[Dwragon]

I've been worried for Mina since a few weeks!

I think she is not rational anymore and she should stay in a psychatric hospital for a while.
It is so hard to judge from afar. In an ideal world all would call out the bully in the beginning and nothing serious happens.
But sadly all are depending on each other. Jimin is their leader with power and their only rapper. She is a hardworker and very ambitious.
It is hard to see when bullying begins and when criticism ends. Often there is serious miscommunication involved and even when someone is bullied it is not always easy to stand up to the bully. How many bosses bully some employees and get away with it because theiy have all the power and noone stands up to them. The other employees might be afraid of losing their jobs and they need to afford their lives.

It surely is not easy for the other members of AOA to do anything if the relationship between two members is totally ruined. I hope Mina learns how to handle her pain on her own and concentrates on her health and future and not on the past.

I feel sorry for the other members of AOA. They did not much wrong and are critized by the public way too hard.

 

[spicy_illusion]

Bullying is so hard to deal with, whether it's mentally or physically.
Physically is more visible but mentally can be extremely damaging over time.
I didn't get physically bullied but I got mentally bullied for years at school and it all started after I had my surgery and had off school for weeks (I remember having a home tutor then), but when I went back to school, I was offered to go to Thorpe Park (a theme park in England) with 3 other people (2 guys and 1 girl, one of the guys was actually my friend from before my surgery), but anyway, when we got there and were queuing for the rides, the 2 guys were saying horrible things and since I couldn't go anywhere, I had to endure it although the girl did tell them to stop being mean to me but they still kept going on and all throughout the day, they kept on breaking me down little by little, I tried to comeback with insults but it was ineffective.
So, this then carried on throughout my school years and by this time, the bullies had multiplied and I had 6 people bullying me and what made it stop eventually was they had somehow got my home phone number and called it and said some vile things on my home answering machine. This is when my dad heard it and asked me about it and what was going on? He then showed my mum and then they took me around all of the guys parents one by one and even found out that one of the bullies was bullied pretty badly himself, so his parents didn't know why he was bullying other when he had to go through hardships in the past.
So that was when it stopped and they all said sorry to me.

This whole ordeal with Mina and AOA really gets to me and it is so heartbreaking for Mina and I know how trapped she must have felt and couldn't escape because sometimes you can't just walk away.
I'm glad at least Hyejeong stuck up for her though, but I bet she was also in a similar situation.

I hope Mina will be ok and gets the help she needs. It will scar her for life, but she can still move on if she gets the right help.

 

[yeji]

I also worry about her. It definitely isn’t easy for her and it’s noticeable how hard it all still is for her