Two types of people that piss me off (1 Viewer)

[tai]

The kind that, refuse to use other's preferred pronouns because 'it makes them uncomfy'

and the other kind.. The kind that refuse to use tone tags because 'it's to much effort'



You suck btw

 

[athenaaa]

Since when is decent respect “uncomfy”, these people need to pull their heads out of their behinds?! That definitely pisses me off. Even if you don’t like the person, still respect their pronouns. It’s not that hard to be a decent person. As for tone tags, it isn’t too much effort. But on the other end of the spectrum, it also pisses me off when people use tone tags for self explanatory things and try to infantilize others. Like “I’m going to the store /srs”. Theres only one way of interpreting that sentence.

 

[tai]

Since when is decent respect “uncomfy”, these people need to pull their heads out of their behinds?! That definitely pisses me off. Even if you don’t like the person, still respect their pronouns. It’s not that hard to be a decent person. As for tone tags, it isn’t too much effort. But on the other end of the spectrum, it also pisses me off when people use tone tags for self explanatory things and try to infantilize others. Like “I’m going to the store /srs”. Theres only one way of interpreting that sentence.

Literally!

Like respect my pronouns or don't speak/refer to me at all!

 

[athenaaa]

Literally!

Like respect my pronouns or don't speak/refer to me at all!

My biggest issue is online. My pronouns are in my bio and on my carrd. They’re everywhere so why’s it so hard?! I use they/them but constantly get called she/her cause I look like a girl and its too hard. Like tf?!

 

[tai]

My biggest issue is online. My pronouns are in my bio and on my carrd. They’re everywhere so why’s it so hard?! I use they/them but constantly get called she/her cause I look like a girl and its too hard. Like tf?!

I more so have this problem irl than online! This is mostly with adults though.

 

[athenaaa]

I more so have this problem irl than online! This is mostly with adults though.

Irl I’m not completely out. They know I’m bi, thats it. Definitely not gonna try to explain asexuality and they/them pronouns. But I have gotten the “your gender is what’s in your pants” talk before

 

[tai]

Irl I’m not completely out. They know I’m bi, thats it. Definitely not gonna try to explain asexuality and they/them pronouns. But I have gotten the “your gender is what’s in your pants” talk before

I'm asexual and trans

I mean, they know about the trans part! I actually have a gender therapist, that I've been trying to schedule appointments for

 

[athenaaa]

I'm asexual and trans

I mean, they know about the trans part! I actually have a gender therapist, that I've been trying to schedule appointments for

Aww thats good that you’re able to see a gender therapist. What bothers me about telling people that I am asexual, is when they say “thats not real” or “you just haven’t had a good sexual encounter yet”

 

[tai]

Aww thats good that you’re able to see a gender therapist. What bothers me about telling people that I am asexual, is when they say “thats not real” or “you just haven’t had a good sexual encounter yet”

That is a very strange thing to say to someone, no cap.

 

[Tickita]

It costs nothing to respect people and make sure people understand your tone when you're communicating through text

 

[athenaaa]

That is a very strange thing to say to someone, no cap.

They say the same about me liking girls “you just haven’t had a good man yet”.

 

[tai]

They say the same about me liking girls “you just haven’t had a good man yet”.

That's icky

 

[athenaaa]

That's icky

Nothing wrong with being straight, nothing wrong with being gay, my issue lies in the fact that some people think its okay to fit everyone in this one box

 

[tai]

Nothing wrong with being straight, nothing wrong with being gay, my issue lies in the fact that some people think its okay to fit everyone in this one box

Right! Like why force labels on people?? Disgusting.

 

[athenaaa]

Right! Like why force labels on people?? Disgusting.

Let people discover their own sexuality and pronouns, dont force them

 

[tai]

Let people discover their own sexuality and pronouns, dont force them

Purr

 

[Dreamer_13]

I have this problem a lot, I'm not out completely but it still makes me angry. I tell people that I go by they/them and they start saying things like, "But you look like a girl" or they start making fun of pronouns completely. My friends say that it's because we go to a public school when really it's just plain out disrespect.