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[Going_Under]

It's completely okay, that's what we're here for. You can always come to me, or any of us, for anything. Unlike some scummy companies, we're not going to leave you behind, now or ever.

Thank you bbg

 

[Snailmin]

uhhhh... ok?

Uhhh sorry wrong thread lol!

 

[Selfmate]

damn that's not very good
I did tell you to read your bloody contract but you even said your parents read through it and ok'd it...

take some time to process your stress and this sudden change of events
go out for a run / scream to take your mind of things - get some food into you lol
and let the anger and confusion pass my friend then when you are in a much better head space come back and we'll talk

 

[Going_Under]

Uhhh sorry wrong thread lol!

its ok lol

 

[Going_Under]

damn that's not very good
I did tell you to read your bloody contract but you even said your parents read through it and ok'd it...

take some time to process your stress and this sudden change of events
go out for a run / scream to take your mind of things - get some food into you lol
and let the anger and confusion pass my friend then when you are in a much better head space come back and we'll talk

thank you unc

 

[Going_Under]

It's okay, you're completely fine. I was gone from here for more than two years, partly because of my bad mental health, and I was welcomed back with open arms and no judgement at all. We all get it. Do whatever will be the best for you. It could be staying active on here, visiting on here less often, or even taking a hiatus or leaving here for a bit. No matter what you decide to do, we will all support you and be there for you. Not a single user here would ever hold anything like this against you in any capacity, no matter what.

That's so horrible! How could they do that? You've mentioned being a trainee for a long time, so you have got to be insanely talented. Why they would waste that is beyond me. Hopefully they reconsider in the future. I know it's not what you wanted and not the same at all, but since it can't be changed at this point (or at least not for a while), I'll try to help you see the bright side. Multiple idols were once backup dancers, such as Lee Know and even one of my enugu faves from DreamNote.

Also, I don't want to get too pessimistic, but even if you never debut as a K-Pop idol (I hope you do by the way, you have a great personality and are very talented), you can still make a big impact on the industry. SM was CRAZY in my opinion for never debuting Ejae, but look how famous she is now! Heck, after Golden and the rest of the K-Pop Demon Hunters soundtrack catapulted her career, she started releasing her own music and even got invited to the Met Gala. No matter what company executives decide, and as disappointing or exciting the decision they make is, I'm sure you'll leave your mark on the industry for the better.

It's completely okay, you don't have to apologize for being emotional. It's part of being human, and it's completely understandable and more than justified given the circumstances. I wish I was there in person so I could give you a big hug. I'm so sorry no one you know in person cares. That reveals way more about how cold they are than how sensitive you are, I promise. I know South Korea doesn't have the best mental health reputation, but they are going too far. I wish there was something more I could do to help. No matter what, we're here for you, however we can help.

Thank you, I think I will stay active but not as much

Hopefully I end up like lee know but until then I'm js a backup dancer for BTS T^T

Idk... I just need someone to help me... someone to calm me down... I miss Melbourne...

 

[fdonce]

Oh im so sorry that happened. I always tell myself trust life though, things always work out in the end. You just never know, life is full of surprises.

My suggestion on future, upload your contract to ChatGPT, it can easily red it for you and look for red flags. I use it all the time to skim through contracts.

 

[Going_Under]

Oh im so sorry that happened. I always tell myself trust life though, things always work out in the end. You just never know, life is full of surprises.

My suggestion on future, upload your contract to ChatGPT, it can easily red it for you and look for red flags. I use it all the time to skim through contracts.

I had multiple people look over it... me, my parents, friends, a lawyer... There was nothing suspicious

 

[fdonce]

I had multiple people look over it... me, my parents, friends, a lawyer... There was nothing suspicious

Ah I misread, so the no debut was not in the contract, that's scummy...

 

[Going_Under]

Ah I misread, so the no debut was not in the contract, that's scummy...

yeah...

 

[Selfmate]

Ah I misread, so the no debut was not in the contract, that's scummy...

I wouldn't necessarily say it's scummy per se since no trainee contract guarantees debut

 

[TrinityJade]

That's completely messed up
You read the contract and signed and they didn't tell you that it means you can't debut? That's flat out ridiculous. You've been training for years for rap (I'm assuming based on past posts) and now they're throwing all those years into the garbage and putting you as a backup dancer?
I'm so sorry for you, know that we're all here for you if you ever want to talk. Take all the time you need <3

 

[Harmony_Starz]

GOD, thats so SHITTY

we're all here for you, I'm sorry they did this to you, you really deserved to have a real chance at debut

 

[Going_Under]

That's completely messed up
You read the contract and signed and they didn't tell you that it means you can't debut? That's flat out ridiculous. You've been training for years for rap (I'm assuming based on past posts) and now they're throwing all those years into the garbage and putting you as a backup dancer?
I'm so sorry for you, know that we're all here for you if you ever want to talk. Take all the time you need <3

ty

 

[Going_Under]

GOD, thats so SHITTY

we're all here for you, I'm sorry they did this to you, you really deserved to have a real chance at debut

thanks gng

 

[Harmony_Starz]

thanks gng

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Thank you, I think I will stay active but not as much

Hopefully I end up like lee know but until then I'm js a backup dancer for BTS T^T

Idk... I just need someone to help me... someone to calm me down... I miss Melbourne...

I'm so sorry. I hope you can visit Melbourne soon.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I had multiple people look over it... me, my parents, friends, a lawyer... There was nothing suspicious

That was smart of you to do. They should have specified making you a backup dancer in this contract, and it's weird that they didn't. There was no way you could have known, unfortunately companies love to trick and take advantage of teenagers.

 

[Going_Under]

I'm so sorry. I hope you can visit Melbourne soon.

same