18+ Was I being groomed and I didn't realize? (1 Viewer)

[kisshuhua09baby]

I remember a while back I was looking for websites where you can find Korean friends and such. I came across a site called GaGa Live and I went on it hoping to find interesting people. It had an Omegle type setup where it connected you to a singular random person on a server and you can chat with each other. When I did this though I ended up coming across a lot of strange people. Almost all of them wanted ppl to friend them on LINE which in of itself is normal but after adding you on LINE they'd ask for a multitude of sexual favors like sending nudes or phone sex. I would tell them that I was under age (for reference I'm 15 & some months) but this would usually lead them to wanting to do these things more
I remember one guy (25) I'd met on the site who I added on LINE. At first he had wanted to do the things the other ones did but I told him I was underage and then we became friends for a bit. We talked on the phone for a while. Later on in the call he kept asking what color my undergarments were and said they were blue.

After that he said my new nickname was ''blue panty''
He also joked about what he'd hypothetically do if I wasn't underage

i shouldn't have continued to speak to him after this but I did and he started asking really personal questions and he asked to see the inside of my house in video call or things if that nature. He also told me about how he relates to me more than those his own age and that he really liked being my friend.
I told him about how the ''blue panty'' thing and the other comments made me uncomfortable and he just brushed it off and said ''you know you shouldn't even be talking to boys my age anyways'' or ''it's fine we're friends right''

i don't know how to feel about this and I think in retrospect he was trying to groom me but I'm not sure

 

[The_LastRomeo]

Yes you were, people really should lock these sites to 18 plus only and have higher security so you can report these people

 

[kisshuhua09baby]

Yes you were, people really should lock these sites to 18 plus only and have higher security so you can report these people

Technically the site GaGaLive is intended for older users but nothing explicitly stops >18 users from accessing it other than a disclaimer in the home page

 

[snsd2beg]

Yes, you were and I'm sorry. You didn't deserve that. I'd advise you to stay away from sites like that, especially while you're still underage. It can be quite damaging and your personal information can be compromised as well

 

[Selfmate]

yes