Were you ever a pick me? (1 Viewer)

[noctis]

Yes...majorly but I'm out of that era now

 

[athenaaa]

Stupid question but what is a pick me?

 

[Magician]

Stupid question but what is a pick me?

a girl who tries to impress boys by acting like she is 'not like other girls'

 

[athenaaa]

a girl who tries to impress boys by acting like she is 'not like other girls'

Yeah that wasn’t me, I tried too hard to be like other girls

 

[noctis]

a girl who tries to impress boys by acting like she is 'not like other girls'

"I'm one of the boys! I don't like dresses and skirts like other girls"

 

[Magician]

Yeah that wasn’t me, I tried too hard to be like other girls

me too lol

 

[Tickita]

I might've had small tendencies for one boy 🙄, but not a general all-around pickme

 

[SnowWhite]

i was always the girly girl

 

[MK3AM]

yes and im still 1 /j i hate most guys ik irl they r immature

 

[Dreamer_of_Songs]

Not really.

 

[Ahsoka]

No, I never had an urge to impress guys anyways so I wouldn’t bother

 

[ning]

you already know the answer

 

[Selfmate]

I know most of the above is referring to a pick me girl
but is there such a thing as a pick me boy?

 

[noctis]

I know most of the above is referring to a pick me girl
but is there such a thing as a pick me boy?

Yes there is
"I'm just ugly you probably don't like me,,I'm so ugly *big sigh*"

 

[Selfmate]

Yes there is
"I'm just ugly you probably don't like me,,I'm so ugly *big sigh*"

then in that case yes...but I don't think that really fits the description of pick me though

in my opinion the true meaning of the term refers to a person (i thought female but maybe it applies to males as well) that deliberately undertakes the hobbies and interests of males (such as sports/gaming/etc) for the purpose of gaining the males attention but also then looks down on tradition female interests/hobbies to make themselves stand out

 

[Deleted member 74]

never, pick mes think they're winning by criticizing other women and typically feminine interests to be liked by or garner the attention of men and it often backfires on them later when they get all walked over :") the annoyance of being subtly put down by a pick me while guys are present x.x

 

[GENE_NEWS]

Only if I want too.. If not I be quiet or just sit on the couch watching kpop 101 how to fight the leader of the group.....

 

[Winnaaaa]

No, but when i was little I always used to cry for attention..

 

[eclipsoul]

no, instead of being "not like the other girls" i was always desperate to fit in and be just like them luckily now i am more than satisfied with who i am as a person and don't go this way or the other

 

[Kataphract]

Gonna be honest i had pickme tendencies before a good thinking over at three AM one night.

Edit I still have some of those tendencies but it wasn't UNHINGED like I was before. Now it's just in moderation.