Were you ever afraid to ask for help with something? (1 Viewer)

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I was when I was younger, and I'm still like this today. I've always been afraid to ask for help because I don't want to look dumb in front of people if I don't understand something. Especially when it came to homework :ono:

And it's also hard for me to talk to people in general since I'm shy and closed off IRL. Like even at stores an employee would ask me if I needed help finding something and I would just lie and say that I'm just looking around, when really I'm struggling to find something because I don't want people to bother me :existentialcrisis:

Does anyone else get like this?
 

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Maybe when I was younger but I grew out of it for the most part-I work in a field where if you mess up it could kill. So if I am too scared to ask for help when I don't understand something it could end badly. I will also say having been in leadership positions-asking for help with things usually makes those who work with you a bit more respecting of your position and title strangely enough.
 
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I'm always afraid to ask for help, even the most simplest of things
 
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Most of my life until I got to tired to not ask for help. There's still plenty of things I can't or won't ask for help with.
 

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Growing up yes. However when really frightening sticky scenarios occur that really shook me right up. Now if I need help, it's better to ask.
 

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I’m the same way tbh. Even if I know someone well I just always feel nervous to ask. If I can’t find something in a store I’ll google where it would normally be and go from there.
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