What do you think about 30+ virgins? (7 Viewers)

[Myco]

Really

yeah

 

[Willow]

yeah

Sad 😞

 

[Myco]

Sad 😞

why I'm okay with not having had anything yet

 

[Willow]

why I'm okay with not having had anything yet

I feel like I’d be an old lady

 

[brekker]

I feel like I’d be an old lady

get a room you two :D.

 

[Willow]

get a room you two :D.

 

[SHlNEE]

people who will not judge you when you tell them in person you are almost a 30 year old virgin?

 

[Wingfrost]

I don’t mind it’s their decision

 

[Mew]

Doesn't really matter.
But in saying that it's usually either by choice or just lack of opportunity.

 

[eclipsoul]

i couldn't care less, it's their own business and no one deserves to be judged for how they choose to live their own life especially for things which are rather private

 

[sapphielix]

I am completely fine with that... Today's society is way too oversexualized anyway. I like people for their personality and I would honestly rather just spend time doing other things than having sex . But everyone likes different things and everyone should be able to live their life the way they want without being judged.

 

[PrideInBaek]

Meh. To each their own.
It's all okay. If you lost your virginity at 16? Ok.
If you're a virgin at 40? Ok.
It's your body. You decide what happens.

 

[brekker]

Meh. To each their own.
It's all okay. If you lost your virginity at 16? Ok.
If you're a virgin at 40? Ok.
It's your body. You decide what happens.

yeah sure, but it´s more like ... what if your bf/gf told you they had zero experience. I know some people are freaked out and it might not have anything to do with them wanting quality sex (and why should they not want that?), but also a lot of people see that as "red flags" for a person. why have they never been curious enough in that area? will that be a problem in the future? sex is a huge part in a relationship if you want it or not. a lot of people cheat because their partners can´t please them in that area.
also if they have never been able to be so close to anyone. why?

of course it is everyone´s decision, the theory is nice, but I´m asking about the practical part. it could make someone really uncomfortable having to "teach" someone in their 30s about "sex life".

 

[PrideInBaek]

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[sapphielix]

yeah sure, but it´s more like ... what if your bf/gf told you they had zero experience. I know some people are freaked out and it might not have anything to do with them wanting quality sex (and why should they not want that?), but also a lot of people see that as "red flags" for a person. why have they never been curious enough in that area? will that be a problem in the future? sex is a huge part in a relationship if you want it or not. a lot of people cheat because their partners can´t please them in that area.
also if they have never been able to be so close to anyone. why?

of course it is everyone´s decision, the theory is nice, but I´m asking about the practical part. it could make someone really uncomfortable having to "teach" someone in their 30s about "sex life".

Asexual people exist. Asexual means experiencing no sexual attraction towards any gender. Some of these people might have never wanted to have sex before, or a close relationship has been required before they could develop physical attraction for a person.

Lots of these people don't view sex as something necessary in a relationship. In my opinion, being a relationship with someone doesn't mean sex HAS to be a part of it in any way. I know people do it for intimacy, which of course is nice, but intimacy can be other things than sex... If you really desire to be in a real long-term relationship with someone, their experience shouldn't really matter.

 

[PrideInBaek]

Wait I edited my response because that wasn't what I wanted to actually say

Let me be clear,
I am a demisexual woman. That means, being a 30 year old virgin? Absolutely possible for me because I've never felt that connection with anyone, not enough to be able to have sex. This is exactly why I've always been upfront to my possibly serious partners and most of them immediately back out and I get it. No harm no foul. So if someone tells me they're a 30 something years old virgin? It's absolutely ok. I would be honoured to be told because most guys I've met love bragging about their "conquests"