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[kodoku]

I read some kind of quote about how you should be careful who and how much you love and that you should make sure you are giving love to someone who can and will give it back to you in return.. because "the depth of your love today is the depth of your wound tomorrow"......

Spoiler: me

they definitely have a point and this is something to keep in mind if you are a wise person, I've learned this too...but the thing is, personally, I'm a fool who is true to myself when it comes to this, to my heart, and gives it all away because I can't lie to myself and I'm sincere to my emotions...... I think that there's beauty in that, even in the pain.. some time ago, I asked to experience "love" even if I get hurt and it happened although it wasn't actually love.. even if I know this, for me it's kinda useless, because I'm not the type who can control my heart or deny things..

 

[Abeamus]

While true I think it also doesn't equate for situations where you think you are putting it with someone you can trust but who can be deceiving you or maybe they are being truthful in that moment in time but later their emotions change. The only place this would really hold true is in a situation where someone is putting themself in an unhealthy situation knowing it's unhealthy because in that situation their feelings would be misplaced with someone they know will bite them in the end.

 

[yeji]

i definitely get what you mean. I can be like that personally too. I am just so emotional and listen to my heart more than rationality.

 

[Deleted member 74]

To be honest, people irl see me as someone who thinks too much with my mind instead of heart, too sceptical and aware, and I think that's true too. When it comes to love and trust, because I'm quiet and calm, people who don't know me might think I'm dumb enough to fall for someone who isn't being genuine with me. But the truth is, I only give my love to so few who can give it back genuinely. But once I do give it my all, when it comes to that person, I think with my heart and not my mind because there's no need to have a barrier anymore.