What is fast? (1 Viewer)

[Lovely_Cornchips]

So I don't know I've entered into my first relationship and I keep saying that he and I are moving fast but according to him we aren't.

This isn't an argument between us by the way it's just something I find interesting. So in your opinion what is moving too fast in a relationship and what is moving slow or like regular?

 

[JakeyWantsCakey]

I suppose that it depends on what stuff you think you're moving fast on...

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I suppose that it depends on what stuff you think you're moving fast on...

I don't necessarily want comments on my relationship since I'm a worry wart and don't want to overthink it XD

 

[JakeyWantsCakey]

I don't necessarily want comments on my relationship since I'm a worry wart and don't want to overthink it XD

haha don't worry as long as you're comfortable with the pace and you're not rushing into any big financial or life decisions too fast, you're good!

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

haha don't worry as long as you're comfortable with the pace and you're not rushing into any big financial or life decisions too fast, you're good!

Yeah we aren't just yeah LOL

 

[kodoku]

well no one can give you a real answer, I think since it depends on a lot of stuff we don't know, but just be careful and only do things you are ready for and comfortable with after you both trust each other........and congrats, hope you guys will be happy together :)

 

[yeji]

just listen to each other and talk about why you two have different opinions on this

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

just listen to each other and talk about why you two have different opinions on this

I know why he does because other couples tend to jump into something way earlier than he and I have but for me some things feel like they are fast?

 

[Abeamus]

Well there's no real answer to how a relationship should be moving, some people get married in their 1st year dating and it works out, others wait till they've been dating for like 5 years to get married and it still works out fine.

Only thing that really matters is whether the two of you feel happy with how things are moving and about communicating that.

 

[igloo]

As someone who has thought about this before, fast and slow don't matter as long as you're both happy with your pace and relationship. There isn't any standard or normal. Relationships are all different and we all move at our own paces. good luck btw

 

[jasque]

Every person has their rythm so it depends on the stage they are in life and how they see the idea of living together, and how it'd realistically be

For me it's only too fast if both do it without thinking about all the variables and It's less about the amount of time than that

 

[Darkseid]

As long as you're okay with whatever stuff is happening. Don't look at other couples and think they're going fast so you should too, just stick to what feels natural for you and what you're comfortable with. All of us have our own pace.

 

[dark_tranquility]

All my past relationships I went too fast and fell in love too easily for the wrong girl.
It crushed me bad, but I learned from it.

All I can tell you is that always ask your partner questions on anything you need answers too
and work things out one step at a time and always mention the L word.

I never used it enough in my relationships that's for sure.