what’s something about you that would surprise most people? (1 Viewer)

[LoveforYe_na]

Is it me?

yah but ur not the only one
Ive had complete strangers comment on an unboxing video that i must be so rich so i guess ill never escape it
even my friends that have albums say it

 

[Jungwonie]

So I dont wanna say it cuz people might think its sad? or odd? Idk but I have.....no sense of self

lmao lemme explain

Spoiler

I have Inattentive type ADHD not common but sometimes for inattentive types, it can be harder to feel connected to themselves? I think in 'we' and 'you' instead of I, I do use I but its not as common, its probably cuz of that basically I feel very...neutral, like no sel-love, no self-hate, no self-worth issues which is actually VERY convenient while I wont love myself, I wont hate myself which is like winning a lottery anyway self-love isn't needed if you aren't gonna self-hate

I can assess arguments without letting feelings cloud things and its much harder to manipulate me cuz I see through things really easily

Its a huge plus as no matter how much I fail or struggle, I wont hate myself for it or balme myself without reasonbut others might think its weird or sad or smth which wouldn't make sense

even i’m a bit surprised
but as they all say, we’ve got to celebrate differences

i wish i was a bit more like you though, i often let my feelings get in the way and i try not to talk much about this cause most people don’t like it when others keep saying they’re insecure of themselves. i mean there are times when i find myself really pretty but there are times (which happen more often) when i look at my pictures and say “damn you ugly af girl” or when i’m around a lot of people i get really anxious, one of the reasons is because i feel like i don’t look good, my hair’s messy, and my clothes look weird on me

 

[Jungwonie]

people assume im rich. im like totally not

rich in love YES

 

[Harmony_Starz]

even i’m a bit surprised
but as they all say, we’ve got to celebrate differences

i wish i was a bit more like you though, i often let my feelings get in the way and i try not to talk much about this cause most people don’t like it when others keep saying they’re insecure of themselves. i mean there are times when i find myself really pretty but there are times (which happen more often) when i look at my pictures and say “damn you ugly af girl” or when i’m around a lot of people i get really anxious, one of the reasons is because i feel like i don’t look good, my hair’s messy, and my clothes look weird on me

Well its not common Its a good difference!

Aww, its alright, some feel more, some feel lessI feel it far less but I get that feeling, I hope one day you can say you're pretty more often than not! I think your very beautiful, your heart is full of love and sweetness, its what really matters

 

[LoveforYe_na]

even i’m a bit surprised
but as they all say, we’ve got to celebrate differences

i wish i was a bit more like you though, i often let my feelings get in the way and i try not to talk much about this cause most people don’t like it when others keep saying they’re insecure of themselves. i mean there are times when i find myself really pretty but there are times (which happen more often) when i look at my pictures and say “damn you ugly af girl” or when i’m around a lot of people i get really anxious, one of the reasons is because i feel like i don’t look good, my hair’s messy, and my clothes look weird on me

I feel like this so often, but honestly i still havent found a way to stop it
soemtimes, if my hair is done ill think im pretty but not very often id say ¨ wowwwwww your gorgeous girl¨
I always feel out of plce when i walk into church too, especially when im late. Like ¨ you shouldnt have worn this, why didnt you wear something more formal¨ honestly im just a horrible overthinker

 

[Pirioca]

people assume im rich. im like totally not

You shine like a star. That's why people think you're rich.

 

[HugeBakkaeMotae]

I am probably the least sociable person that you will ever meet.

I grew up without a family and therefore did not attend basic school, I've never had a friend and I work from home. One of the reasons I do not talk a lot is because it's actually physically hard for me to do so when I sometimes don't use my voice for years at a time. Right now this site is my only avenue of communication with other people which is why I easily write too much and over-share.

This might sound depressing to some but it's mostly by choice, I've had opportunities to make friends and chosen not to do so. I still feel loneliness like any other person but I just don't have the social energy to manage long-term relationships. Sometimes I think that childhood trauma made it too hard and it's not really by choice after all, so there's a battle that rages inside me. (This is the over-sharing part)

I might not be the best person to give advice on human relationships because of this (although I do tend to be more observant than more sociable people) but I don't think anyone want to end up like me, my dream was always to create the family I never had but I've grown to accept that it's not ment to be. So when I see people struggle to put themselves out there because they are shy but they really want to I want to tell them to just go for it, being embarassed is not the worst thing in the world - especially if you didn't do anything wrong. Life is short and there is no such thing as karma, good things won't come because you deserve them, you have to go out there and take risks to seize them.

 

[IGURO]

That i´ve been going to church since before i was born
Like yes i have experimented with dating a girl, no i wont be doing it again, but does that affect my Christianity?
No, not at all
As long as i can repent and acknowledge that what i did is wrong im perfectly fine

When I was younger people also assumed i was gonna be terrible at dancing, but i got into school for dancing so

w church <3

 

[IGURO]

some christians dont understand that repenting is a thing ig, because i didnt say I was gay
i just dated a girl while i was figuring stuff out
Im VERY comfortable in my religion and not just because i was born into it so i hate when peple accuse me of not wanting to be christian or bringing up me and the girl

get u too bro

i am also christian <3

 

[IGURO]

maybe my race? I don't even know half the time what race i am bcs at first i thought i was mixed (black + white) but then i heard chinese and indian and scottish like wtf? Who am I rn

 

[Villains]

for online i think people usually think i'm older than i actually am, and they're usually off when they guess my age

but irl, i think people usually assume i'm younger than i am ??

i think it's cause online, ppl don't physically see me but only get to know my personality and ig my personality comes off as older?? but i think i look much younger to people irl but idk man

 

[HyuneSuga]

I'm same age as SUGA even though people online AND REAL LIFE mistake me for 16-22 Which I totally can't complain about.

I'd go to an all ages gig and people in high school would think I am too (like hun I wouldn't be covered in tattoos if I was 16