why i've decided to stop considering gender when listening to kpop (2 Viewers)

[princesita]

after realizing that i am trans male, it feels a little hypocritical. in the future, when i fully finish my transition. i'll have all the privileges a cis male has (except for the fact that i am trans,, i will probably be getting hate crimed quite regularly/hj). plus it's quite childish. like i can't imagine myself in college and being like "omg ew!! flop male group comeback!!" like bro, i don't care i want to drop out and if this song is good it could give me something to do other than think about dropping out, moving countries, and restarting./j like be serious, do u think i am sittin' here like "BOOO!!! BOY GROUPS SUCK!!!!.. Now let me go save pics of some boy groups to my gender envy board". Also the fact that i realized that i MIGHT like men as well. I get hatin on men for doing problematic dumb stuff becuz that is deserved and i do that too but that is a completely different convo and not what i am talkin about rn. I used to buy into that kind of mentality when i was younger but it feels very immature to me now. if u do that, good 4 u i'm not sayin u r immature or childish urself. i'm just saying my personal feelings towards that kind of mind set.



thanks 4 reading my ted-talk

 

[princesita]

i love music i have always loved music it's one of the reasons i've decided to start dancing and hopefully start a career in dancing, but i just can't sit here and only listen to one gender of music especially when there's so many good songs out there in the world;

 

[Willow]

I totally understand