Why tf is gender so hard to figure out??? (1 Viewer)

[maruberry]

Aight

I'm genderfluid
I tend to lean towards the masc side of things like 90% of the time
I've got my gender ish MOSTLY figured out

BUT

WHY TF IS GENDER SO CONFUSING????
What IS gender???
Why cannot it be simple???
why can it not be man, woman, end of story (I KNOW, a genderfluid maybe-probably-trans person advocating for the gender binary lmao)

Like IMAGINE if it actually was as simple as the transphobes think it is. IMAGINE NO CONFUSION
Oh god why is it not that simple

This message is brought to you by a shirt that caused gender euphoria yesterday, causing dysphoria today :))))))))

Thank you for listening to my rant

 

[maruberry]

To people who remember my old posts

Wonder why I was so obsessed with dudes in skirts??? Genderfluid
It's the genderfluid in me that makes me wanna put dudes in skirt

I want to be a dude in a skirt

 

[Ahsoka]

If gender and sexuality was that simple for everyone that would be really nice

 

[athenaaa]

I wish gender were more easy to figure out

I just know for a fact I’m not cisgender. Im biologically born female for context. Like I was using he/him pronouns for a while, that didn’t feel right though. I was using soley they/them and that felt good. But now I’m trying she/her. Too

 

[maruberry]

I wish gender were more easy to figure out

I just know for a fact I’m not cisgender. Im biologically born female for context. Like I was using he/him pronouns for a while, that didn’t feel right though. I was using soley they/them and that felt good. But now I’m trying she/her. Too

It is fucking hard. I know I wish to be seen as a masc person or even a guy, but also want to wear femme clothes.

So atm I'm just waiting until i can get on T.... Tbh... Being perceived as a woman feels worse than not being able to wear clothes I want to, so I'm just stuck dressing masc these days.

That however can come with the downfall of looking almost TOO masc for my tastes, thus dysphoria... Which is stupid bcs I don't even PASS for a guy.

I just want to look ambiguous gender wise (or slightly leaning masc) while being perceived as a femme guy... This is almost impossible to achieve...

 

[maruberry]

If gender and sexuality was that simple for everyone that would be really nice

Just... Smbdy make the gender binary real pls

 

[athenaaa]

It is fucking hard. I know I wish to be seen as a masc person or even a guy, but also want to wear femme clothes.

So atm I'm just waiting until i can get on T.... Tbh... Being perceived as a woman feels worse than not being able to wear clothes I want to, so I'm just stuck dressing masc these days.

That however can come with the downfall of looking almost TOO masc for my tastes, thus dysphoria... Which is stupid bcs I don't even PASS for a guy.

I just want to look ambiguous gender wise (or slightly leaning masc) while being perceived as a femme guy... This is almost impossible to achieve...

I understand to a degree what you said. When I was using he/him pronouns my biggest issue was worrying if I passed, which I absolutely did not