If you don't know, why did you make this thread at all?
If you cannot say or won't say your reason for creating this thread, why waste others' time and expect them to answer when they do not know what you are trying to say?
In other words, you are very unclear on what you are saying
because you are NOT giving reasons.
Also, my guess is you probably feel ignored because, again, you are not clear in your statements by writing incomplete sentences so nobody understands or knows exactly what you meant or were saying and you are not getting replies in your threads.
If you do not provide reasons, I will ask a Moderator to lock your thread so nobody else wastes their time reading and replying to it.
Edit ~
To Selfmate and anyone else reading in the future ~ Why are you shocked about this? You know this was what you were thinking, too.