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at this time, i don't feel that badly about my appearance, but i don't take compliments such as "you look manly/like a boy" very seriously. they're probably just trying to validate me :haylul: at times i can believe that i'm cute, however. it's normal, i think, to not see yourself as others do. we're limited by only seeing our reflections and pictures, never seeing ourselves as we truly are. besides, it's easy to be self-critical :crycry:
 
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at this time, i don't feel that badly about my appearance, but i don't take compliments such as "you look manly/like a boy" very seriously. they're probably just trying to validate me :haylul: at times i can believe that i'm cute, however. it's normal, i think, to not see yourself as others do. we're limited by only seeing our reflections and pictures, never seeing ourselves as we truly are. besides, it's easy to be self-critical :crycry:
I mean, it doesn’t necessarily have to be about appearances either. Like when someone says I’m smart.
”You look manly” who the fuck. I’d probably slap them if I were you. That’s so cringy.
Yeah that’s so true. It’s easier to compare yourself than to appreciate yourself. It’s hard to do. For anyone.
 
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I mean, it doesn’t necessarily have to be about appearances either. Like when someone says I’m smart.
”You look manly” who the fuck. I’d probably slap them if I were you. That’s so cringy.
Yeah that’s so true. It’s easier to compare yourself than to appreciate yourself. It’s hard to do. For anyone.
very true, i was just sharing how i experience it. when someone says i'm smart, i don't believe it either :wimwim:

i mean, it might feel better if it were actually true ? but it feels insulting because i don't think i'll ever measure up to that expectation, so i just smile and nod and scream inside :kokorohappy:
 
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very true, i was just sharing how i experience it. when someone says i'm smart, i don't believe it either :wimwim:

i mean, it might feel better if it were actually true ? but it feels insulting because i don't think i'll ever measure up to that expectation, so i just smile and nod and scream inside :kokorohappy:
 
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