How much do you gossip? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

And how do you feel after you do it? what is it that you usually complain about when it comes to others? who do you do it with and for what reason?

Spoiler: me

I avoid doing it, especially with people idk well and don't trust. I just don't see the point of judging someone when I, myself, am also flawed. You have this flaw, I have that one.. now what? If I have time to talk badly about others, I should be working on myself.. that being sad, I'm also guilty of this because I get frustrated when someone hurts me. I have a few friends I'm close with and trust and we sometimes criticize other people's behaviour. While it can make me feel closer to someone, it also makes me feel like a toxic person and hypocrite... I used to never gossip when I was younger and I want to go back to that

 

[Hajima]

i don't gossip at all.

 

[baekk]

I don't gossip at all, I know how it feels and it really sucks

 

[kuro]

I don't gossip, I've gotten hurt many times, been on both the receiving end of the other and the giving end of the hurt, so I have learned the hard way.

 

[Mew]

I'm the reciever of gossip at work but that it really i don't really talk about people or others negatively its somewhat pointless especially if their insignificant to my life.. technically everything that gets said at work is truth and usually brought up with the person their talking about, i work with older people tho. i hear everything and see everything i just don't interfer, much like i do when i lurk around the internet.. but boy do i know a lot of shit i'm taking to the grave with me lol

 

[blueberries]

Pretty rarely I'd say and I often feel bad hearing somebody is being gossiped about.

 

[AnotherKpopTrash]

I can relate to what you put in the spoiler. It's how I feel about gossip too.

 

[SnowWhite]

Ngl for me to seem lile that perfect innocent girl. I do gossip when i'm around my close friends. Thankfully i'm not the type to start long convs with other people.

 

[emptycup]

I don't.
I'm been gossiped about all my life, and I would never do that to another person.
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[Deleted member 74]

Here and there if it comes up in conversations but I dislike it, it reminds me that I should know better because I was often the topic in people’s mouths too. By people who knew nothing about me, so when time comes for casual gossip I keep in mind I actually know no one people talk about and should show some respect, by being careful with what I say in conversations that include gossip

 

[Jimimis]

i couldnt even gossip if i wanted to, everyone i know is boring

 

[mysteric]

Rarely. I’m more of the I’ll wait until you’re comfortable enough to tell me type of person so I don’t hear most of what goes around lmao

 

[amourpinks]

i only really "gossip" about people if theyve been mean or rude to me or someone else that i know. i dont gossip with people i dont know and i dont gossip about innocent people. I try not to do it, because i know how it feels to constantly feel paranoid about people talking about you. ive even had "friends" who have talked bad about some of my close friends right in front of me and the only thing i did was stay silent, i dont talk crap about people who im close with. but if your a trashy person then I dont know what you might be surprised about if people are gossiping about you.

 

[ripiasuju]

Here and there if it comes up in conversations but I dislike it, it reminds me that I should know better because I was often the topic in people’s mouths too. By people who knew nothing about me, so when time comes for casual gossip I keep in mind I actually know no one people talk about and should show some respect, by being careful with what I say in conversations that include gossip

Aww..

Too bad cause you're still gonna have to listen to all my gossip hehe.

 

[ripiasuju]

As for me. I dont gossip unless they did about me.

I dont like to get into others business it's not mine so I shouldn't. And I really cant stand gossipers however if you have involved me or any of my friends then. You are my target now. So. Yeah I only gossip as defense.