Don't u be like (1 Viewer)

[burnenemy]

Extremely curious on what jerks think/feel about you?

I tend to think obsessively about people that I like. Like I wonder how they feel about me. Why they are doing such thing. Why why why

But well most ppl are dishonest since they care a lot about pride and ego so I guess I just move on after months? I want to ask but then I tend to say hurtful stuff first hmm


At same time I am scared of the answer too

 

[athenaaa]

Honestly, yeah. I’m curious how people feel about me, whether it’s good or bad. And I feel awful when someone doesn’t like me so I try hard to fix whatever it is

 

[burnenemy]

If I like their answer, I can't stick to them righ?

 

[burnenemy]

Honestly, yeah. I’m curious how people feel about me, whether it’s good or bad. And I feel awful when someone doesn’t like me so I try hard to fix whatever it is

What if they are mega jerk?

I asked him a lot but I am scared

If I like his answer, I can't stick on him right?

 

[burnenemy]

Honestly, yeah. I’m curious how people feel about me, whether it’s good or bad. And I feel awful when someone doesn’t like me so I try hard to fix whatever it is

I guess I rarely like someone who hate me

 

[uran]

Cause of my low selfesteem i am extremely curious what people think of me to get validation may it be negative or positive i just have this graving to hear them

 

[burnenemy]

Cause of my low selfesteem i am extremely curious what people think of me to get validation may it be negative or positive i just have this graving to hear them

If it is negative, how u deal with it?


I once heard my so called first lover saying he only love his ex (which means he never love me)
Well, I kinda knew it but then it haunted me every night for like 2 years

 

[uran]

If it is negative, how u deal with it?


I once heard my so called first lover saying he only love his ex (which means he never love me)
Well, I kinda knew it but then it haunted me every night for like 2 years

I try to ignoore it but it rarely works. Mostly i just feel really self concious and self hatred for couple hours to couple days and then get over it and try actively not to think about it.

 

[burnenemy]

I try to ignoore it but it rarely works. Mostly i just feel really self concious and self hatred for couple hours to couple days and then get over it and try actively not to think about it.

Guess u don't really take it seriously

 

[athenaaa]

I guess I rarely like someone who hate me

Well yeah me too, but I still have a respect for them to do well in life even if I’m not a part of it. Maybe its cause I’m too nice

 

[uran]

Guess u don't really take it seriously

I try not to so it doesnt bother me but i do get hurt

 

[burnenemy]

Well yeah me too, but I still have a respect for them to do well in life even if I’m not a part of it. Maybe its cause I’m too nice

Guess u don't hate anyone

I don't want to see them happy without me since they hurt me

 

[burnenemy]

I try not to so it doesnt bother me but i do get hurt

But if it last for only one day maybe not really hurtful?

 

[uran]

But if it last for only one day maybe not really hurtful?

i get better quickly

 

[athenaaa]

Guess u don't hate anyone

I don't want to see them happy without me since they hurt me

Hate is a very strong word tbh

 

[hxney_jun]

no, not really tbh

 

[Jimimis]

I am a jerk and I know exactly what I think of myself

 

[Deleted member 74]

I know exactly what those people have thought of me and still think of me, and what could potentially be thought in future
I used to be determined to go out of my way to change the minds of people for validation and feel terrible being told I'm disliked by anyone
but nowadays I am content to leave them be with their view as they're not in my direct life to know me and I'm still going to be me regardless
and hopefully, the right people will accept me and create positivity in my life the way I've worked to shape it like that <3

 

[eclipsoul]

i am curious what anyone thinks about me, jerks or not lol it doesn't affect me or my self-esteem in any means i am just nosy

 

[burnenemy]

Hate is a very strong word tbh

Feeling is strong

That 's why