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isn't it 7 years age difference? by the thread I thought it was a decade minimum age difference
the OP has mentioned the people later so they meant GD and Jennie. as for them apparently meeting when she was at Middle School, now thinking about it, wasn´t Jennie studying in New Zealand? She left when she was 10 and graduated Middle School there so I dunno how they could actually meet when she was at MS, but to be fair I am not that knowledgeable about her or GD. I only know that they have known each other for a long time, that is true.
 
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the OP has mentioned the people later so they meant GD and Jennie. as for them apparently meeting when she was at Middle School, now thinking about it, wasn´t Jennie studying in New Zealand? She left when she was 10 and graduated Middle School there so I dunno how they could actually meet when she was at MS, but to be fair I am not that knowledgeable about her or GD. I only know that they have known each other for a long time, that is true.
Yeah I just thought much younger woman would be younger based on the thread's op

Ah I think it's bc korean middle school is different as they graduate at like 15. Jennie did meet GD at 14-16, idr exactly.
 
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the OP has mentioned the people later so they meant GD and Jennie. as for them apparently meeting when she was at Middle School, now thinking about it, wasn´t Jennie studying in New Zealand? She left when she was 10 and graduated Middle School there so I dunno how they could actually meet when she was at MS, but to be fair I am not that knowledgeable about her or GD. I only know that they have known each other for a long time, that is true.
Jennie would have been out of middle school, or their version of it, in New Zealand but Korean high school is just 3 years so there would have been some waiting before she could officially be considered a Korean high school student.
 
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Jennie would have been out of middle school, or their version of it, in New Zealand but Korean high school is just 3 years so there would have been some waiting before she could officially be considered a Korean high school student.
High school starts at 15 in SK, Middle School in New Zealand ends at 13. They met in 2012 which was 10 years ago. Wouldn´t that mean she was a high school student already by like all standards?
 
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High school starts at 15 in SK, Middle School in New Zealand ends at 13. They met in 2012 which was 10 years ago. Wouldn´t that mean she was a high school student already by like all standards?
According to this reference, Korean high school starts by age 16, and it looks to be following Western age because the last year starts by age 18 (rather than 19).


Most likely, Jennie met GD when she was just done with middle school or in the first months of high school.
 
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Yeah I just thought much younger woman would be younger based on the thread's op

Ah I think it's bc korean middle school is different as they graduate at like 15. Jennie did meet GD at 14-16, idr exactly.
even if, I still think it´s normal for two people to meet? even if she had a crush on him or he thought she was beautiful? I mean ... she was beautiful even as a child and a teenager. she just has the features, no wonder she became an idol? but it still doesn´t have to mean anything. am I too naïve?
 
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even if, I still think it´s normal for two people to meet? even if she had a crush on him or he thought she was beautiful? I mean ... she was beautiful even as a child and a teenager. she just has the features, no wonder she became an idol? but it still doesn´t have to mean anything. am I too naïve?
It’s quite subjective. If a good looking athlete or artist dated a woman who he knew when she was 16 but he was an adult, there wouldn’t be much outcry. But if a regular looking teacher dated a student he knew when she was 16, it would definitely raise more eyebrows.
 
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It’s quite subjective. If a good looking athlete or artist dated a woman who he knew when she was 16 but he was an adult, there wouldn’t be much outcry. But if a regular looking teacher dated a student he knew when she was 16, it would definitely raise more eyebrows.
I mean, I get your point but are we sure they were actually dating when she was of that age? I know there were rumours they had been dating for a year before their apparent split. fair enough, but were they really dating when she was 16? I am just asking. I seriously don´t know. In that case, since the age of consent in Korea is 20 years old, that would seriously be illegal and controversial unless they were like holding hands for 4 years which with all due respect to GD, I doubt they would do? (or maybe they would but... )

You would be surprised that while a lot of countries forbid their teachers to date their students aka meaning they would be fired on the spot, a lot of countries do allow that as long as the student is older than the age of consent. For example, here the age of consent is 15. A friend of mine had a classmate who had a child with her high school teacher, she was 18 and was a stepmother to his children as well as being a mum at 18. Of course there were odd looks and moral questions, but the teacher did not lose his job. Technically he did nothing illegal according to general law or school rules.
 

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even if, I still think it´s normal for two people to meet? even if she had a crush on him or he thought she was beautiful? I mean ... she was beautiful even as a child and a teenager. she just has the features, no wonder she became an idol? but it still doesn´t have to mean anything. am I too naïve?
I'm not saying there was or wasn't anything wrong or anything, I'm saying it's quite possible they met when she was in middle school.
 
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I'm not saying there was or wasn't anything wrong or anything, I'm saying it's quite possible they met when she was in middle school.
yeah she was in his video that came out in 2012 so they really did meet. it is just that she was a bit older and when reading I thought it was like at school or something, but they met via her acting in his video. I have to admit the song is quite lolita-esque, and would probably not come out these days.

 
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yeah she was in his video that came out in 2012 so they really did meet. it is just that she was a bit older and when reading I thought it was like at school or something, but they met via her acting in his video. I have to admit the song is quite lolita-esque, and would probably not come out these days.

Yeah I knew that

I didn't know if they met before that too
 
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The op never said they started dating when they met, just that they met at a younger age.
feel like OP's talking about gdragon and jennie. tbh i have no idea
 
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