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In a romantic sense?



Even being in a relationship now for over a year, I can say that I have not had
enough experience to know what love is supposed to feel like. That word is thrown
around in my relationship often but ... I don't think either of us truly know what love
is or are capable of truly loving each other. I always believed that love comes out
of experience in life and with partners. I know some people go off and marry their
high school sweet-hearts but for the majority of people they don't. I've always found
love to be a very delicate and unique topic as not everyone feels it the same way. But
I just can't help but feel that I am too young to know what it is ...


What are your thoughts?
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How old are you?

I fell in love at 15, and it definitely was the most powerful feeling I felt. Even tho it's been ages it never 100% left me and I think of her at random times.

I understood it then and since I've understood it, so I dont think age matters its rather the experience of the individual.
 

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How old are you?

I fell in love at 15, and it definitely was the most powerful feeling I felt. Even tho it's been ages it never 100% left me and I think of her at random times.

I understood it then and since I've understood it, so I dont think age matters its rather the experience of the individual.
lmao, I'm 15 and I fell in love at 10 xD
of course I fell in love this year too, but my first love was my queen
 
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How old are you?

I fell in love at 15, and it definitely was the most powerful feeling I felt. Even tho it's been ages it never 100% left me and I think of her at random times.

I understood it then and since I've understood it, so I dont think age matters its rather the experience of the individual.
I'm 17 but that's definitely interesting.

Idk, sometimes I worry that the reason I say I love someone is because I'm afraid of being alone with myself and have gained an attachment rather than a true connection. Even with past people I don't think I can say I truly understand it.
 
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I'm 17 but that's definitely interesting.

Idk, sometimes I worry that the reason I say I love someone is because I'm afraid of being alone with myself and have gained an attachment rather than a true connection. Even with past people I don't think I can say I truly understand it.
Its like this.

If you're uncertain, it isnt love, you'll know for sure when you have fallen
 
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Its like this.

If you're uncertain it isnt love, you'll know for sure when you have fallen
I guess that's a simpler way of looking at it.

I just worry I will confuse love with attachment given my ... personality I guess.
 
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Taeyong and Doyoung certainly know :llama_laugh:
 
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I guess that's a simpler way of looking at it.

I just worry I will confuse love with attachment given my ... personality I guess.
Yeah I understand. Sometimes you can't help but say it.

You're still young so I wouldn't worry too much, also on akp i had no idea you were that young lol.
 
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Yeah I understand. Sometimes you can't help but say it.

You're still young so I wouldn't worry too much, also on akp i had no idea you were that young lol.
Lol, a lot of people thought I was older for some reason. Someone mentioned thinking I was at least 20 haha.
 
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i can understand how you feel because i fear that's how the girl i love rn will end up seeing how she feels right now. as for me, i know what is important to me and who i've love and love.
Well, as Ripia mentioned. We are still young.

I always fear being alone now experiencing a relationship and I'm afraid that is my drive in keeping one. I hope you the best, but always understand - we have plenty of time in our lives to find someone even if our high school relationships do not last. I have hope for myself and for you, we have a long future ahead to see what happens. =)
 
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yes, it is possible... but in terms of how one feels love its individually different,
the feeling of love will never be the same as someone elses, hence its such a difficult feeling to define.
Also there's the Key difference of being IN love with someone and just Loving someone.
Emotions are difficult and fickle.
 
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Love you just feel, its not something to think too much about or it'll fade.

It involve contradictory stuff and messy sensations
 
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I think people at any age can understand what love is it's learning how to work in a relationship that people of all ages can't do
 
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