I think I’m going to post here more often (1 Viewer)

[ChiaraStar169]

how can we still reply to this thread? @Moderator I have a feeling this isn't going to end pretty. If this is a false report, I'm sorry - this is my first time doing it.

 

[matteoCFO]

Personally I don’t respond to a lot of threads that require a lot of reading because it is hard for me to process a lot of information. I’m sorry if you felt offended by anyone here, that’s not our intentions whatsoever. Please stop generalizations and calling people ableists though because this forum has a lot of neurodivergent users. And that can be harmful and push others away. You are free to talk about whatever you want, just don’t criticize people.

Okay I am sorry, I guess I will stop posting threads like this but I just don't get it sometimes and it's hard, I was trying to talk about autism and was afraid there may have been no neurodivergent folks and that they might attack me for being non-neurotypical, I'm sorry, I guess I will just ignore all the ableist ones.

 

[athenaaa]

Okay I am sorry, I guess I will stop posting threads like this but I just don't get it sometimes and it's hard, I was trying to talk about autism and was afraid there may have been no neurodivergent folks and that they might attack me for being non-neurotypical, I'm sorry, I guess I will just ignore all the ableist ones.

Unfortunately anywhere you go there will be some not so nice people, I’ve been there. Its okay, we move on. This should be a safe space to do so. I will just give a few suggestions to make your threads more inviting: ask questions, and don’t start with the same phrase. Variety is great and engaging

 

[NBW]

But how can I really make friends, I have autism and I'm half-Mexican, everyone hates me despite the fact my mother is Mexican and works hard for me to be accepted with autism, how is it fair to say all this stuff about Mexicans and autistic people? I'm not attacking anyone on here, I'm just expressing myself.

friends dont just become friends out of the blue. very rarely that happens, especially online. u need to form a connection
i think one mistake u r doing is saying those things out the blue. i dont think its the right introduction. imo if u give people too much information, they'll end up feeling uncomfortable with u. i had that happen before, cause im also not the best at expressing myself
so my advice would be for u to talk about ur life without pressuring people to have to talk to u. ive done threads that got 0 replies countless times. probably on the hundreds. i also got threads that got up to 20 pages of replies. it depends a lot on what u talk about
not sayin u should talk about anything that u dont like to talk about ofc, but u gotta be able to accept not everyone wants to talk about the same stuff

plus this doesnt actually matter at all. its just an online forum. u r working out and doing healthy stuff irl, ur mom cares about u... u might be better than most of us if im quite honest lol so also dont search for validation here. if thats ur only goal, its not gonna be a fun ride for u, trust me

 

[dark_tranquility]

OK AND????
that has nothing to with the fact you are falsely calling people ableists... i've been on this forum for a while and no one here is what you are claiming them to be

I think you are cool and very intelligent. thats my view.

 

[scaramouche]

I think you are cool and very intelligent. thats my view.

thanks you