red flags? (1 Viewer)

[the101]

"I know you think..." which is usually on the path to gaslighting shenanigans.

'I know you think I was being mean but it was just a joke.'

'I know you think it was racist but it was just a joke."

etc

 

[RockyGoose]

Well... I'm part Danish, which makes me a red flag lol

 

[cocomelon]

DID SOMEONE SAY RED FLAGS?

everyone pledge alligiance to the flag

 

[Violanah]

Texting me way to much. I matched with someone online and we hadn’t even had a first date yet. This person was blowing up my phone all day with messages and would get angry if I didn’t immediately reply back. I have a job and a life outside of my phone. Spamming me with texts and sending me even more of them if I don’t respond is disrespectful.

Making passive aggressive comments about my personal choices and hobbies. Had a first date that did this when I brought up taking casually college classes. Apparently they had something against college students.Then went on to make passive aggressive comments about people who like art. If you don’t like college students or artists maybe read somebody’s profile before swiping on it.

Being rude to the waiter or waitress.I had this happen on two separate dates with two different women.Both were extremely rude to the waitress. Over small stuff too like the takeout box they brought over was too small. Please tell me you are not freaking out over a box. It’d take her a few minutes to go grab another one. If you’re treating a waitress this way over a box I can only imagine how you’d treat me.

People who don’t understand that no means no.

 

[Sooyaabean]

They don't like blackpink

jk

No but a real red flag is when they treat you like a child

 

[hxney_jun]

My ex lol

well, that's good you broke up then

 

[hxney_jun]

ppl who think being loud = being funny

this fr

 

[hxney_jun]

when they make this face:

put them eyebrows down

what if its ironically?


but yeah, if they're being fr i would just turn around and walk away idc

 

[hxney_jun]

Well... I'm part Danish, which makes me a red flag lol

i think your red flag is being a goose

 

[hxney_jun]

"I know you think..." which is usually on the path to gaslighting shenanigans.

'I know you think I was being mean but it was just a joke.'

'I know you think it was racist but it was just a joke."

etc

you learn something every day.
how many times has this happened to me i can't even count

 

[Venom]

the texting thing is so real, the way they'll repeatedly message you with " hey " or " you there " after sending you a message you have yet to reply to or even seen. Far too overbearing and clingy for me personally.

 

[Minazuki]

Misplaced sense of self-importance mixed with victim mentality. When someone thinks all other people do are to affect them.

 

[CITY]

Misplaced sense of self-importance mixed with victim mentality. When someone thinks all other people do are to affect them.

Main character syndrome...

 

[CITY]

what if its ironically?


but yeah, if they're being fr i would just turn around and walk away idc

If they take selfies like this, just run atp

 

[Venom]

Main character syndrome...

Some are just born with plot armor (that one gremlin 😡) while others just try to force it down everyone’s throats every single day, making it their entire personality

 

[butter]

When people want to get close to you WAY too soon and cross boundaries while doing so. Especially when they do it in a way that puts you in a position where if you are direct and say no, I'm uncomfortable, you are painted as "the bad person". So you feel bad, despite having no reason to think that way.
This makes it clear that that person is using you as means to validate themselves and stay on top. Very toxic.

 

[hxney_jun]

Main character syndrome...

tea is hot, and so real.

 

[hxney_jun]

If they take selfies like this, just run atp

jaehyun...

 

[Villains]

when they don't respect your boundaries

when they make everything about themselves

make fun of you for your interests

 

[butter]

Also, when people constantly make everything about themselves.