Video AITA for asking my fiancee to remove her kpop tattoo? (1 Viewer)

[seungfloral]

My friend sent me this video the other day and we had some words to exchange. What do you guys think?


If it was a tattoo of an ex maybe, but dude seems REALLY insecure!

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Nope, he's wrong, jealous, insecure and a coward. Growing up wouldn't hurt either. All this coming from a guy who's favorite song is Teddy Bear and would totally get an Apink Tattoo...

 

[seungfloral]

Nope, he's wrong, jealous, insecure and a coward. Growing up wouldn't hurt either. All this coming from a guy who's favorite song is Teddy Bear and would totally get an Apink Tattoo...

All of the above, also the ''branded'' wording, as if she was some object... weird.

 

[StirFriedPanda]

All of the above, also the ''branded'' wording, as if she was some object... weird.

I can't imagine he really loves her if he'd throw their entire relationship away over a Tattoo. And it's not like she can get some rubbing alcohol and make it go away. Removal is a time intensive, expensive and painful process. He's probably to much of a selfish douche to even consider that.

 

[dark_tranquility]

A bit sad really. that's all I can say about it.

 

[seungfloral]

I can't imagine he really loves her if he'd throw their entire relationship away over a Tattoo. And it's not like she can get some rubbing alcohol and make it go away. Removal is a time intensive, expensive and painful process. He's probably to much of a selfish douche to even consider that.

by the way he said it '' i expect it to be removed'', yeah GIRL RUN

 

[seungfloral]

A bit sad really. that's all I can say about it.

yeah sadly :(

 

[StirFriedPanda]

by the way he said it '' i expect it to be removed'', yeah GIRL RUN

Exactly!

 

[Ahsoka]

"I want my partner to remove a tattoo that has an acceptable meaning towards them because I'm insecure and close minded. AITA?"
As someone else said it's also not like washing off sharpie. It takes a bit more than deciding I want to get rid of it and then washing it off with soap.
Also does he expect her to fly to Korea, find Yongguk, show them the tattoo, and get married on the spot? Especially depending on her thoughts about age ranges, 5ish years wouldn't be a preference at this age for some. Though there have obviously been worse.
Also as much as I don't like tramp stamps I applaud her for having taste

 

[StirFriedPanda]

"I want my partner to remove a tattoo that has an acceptable meaning towards them because I'm insecure and close minded. AITA?"
As someone else said it's also not like washing off sharpie. It takes a bit more than deciding I want to get rid of it and then washing it off with soap.
Also does he expect her to fly to Korea, find Yongguk, show them the tattoo, and get married on the spot? Especially depending on her thoughts about age ranges, 5ish years wouldn't be a preference at this age for some. Though there have obviously been worse.
Also as much as I don't like tramp stamps I applaud her for having taste

I also love how he calls the music an entire country listens to childish. He's definitely not racist....

 

[Ahsoka]

I also love how he calls the music an entire country listens to childish. He's definitely not racist....

He's a moron no matter which way you spin it tbh

 

[seungfloral]

"I want my partner to remove a tattoo that has an acceptable meaning towards them because I'm insecure and close minded. AITA?"
As someone else said it's also not like washing off sharpie. It takes a bit more than deciding I want to get rid of it and then washing it off with soap.
Also does he expect her to fly to Korea, find Yongguk, show them the tattoo, and get married on the spot? Especially depending on her thoughts about age ranges, 5ish years wouldn't be a preference at this age for some. Though there have obviously been worse.
Also as much as I don't like tramp stamps I applaud her for having taste

I also love how he calls the music an entire country listens to childish. He's definitely not racist....

Ugh when he called it smth only teen girls do MY BLOOD BOILED

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Ugh when he called it smth only teen girls do MY BLOOD BOILED

I'm ok with it because it means thats one less douche bag to join a fandom and become toxic. We have enough of those.