Is it easy for you to make friends? (1 Viewer)

[uran]

Online yes
Irl no, mainly cause people misunderstand my npc lifestyle of only being social when spoken to, as intimidating antisocial that even my good looks cant save

 

[LoveYooShaSha]

Nope

 

[pinkmelodies]

no... in fact, just the other day, I met a nice lady in the Chipotle line, and we chatted for a sec about each other's hair (I liked her updo, and she liked my curls)... but when I asked her if she'd like my number so we could chat, she said "not today, but it was very nice to meet you" like... am I doing something wrong?

You didn't do anything wrong!! She probably doesn't like giving out her phone number. Also she said "not today" so if you see her again she might want to in that moment

 

[pinkmelodies]

easy enough

just take an interesting in what they like

go read "How to make friends and influence people"

I actually have no trouble having people come up and wanting to get to know me. It's just down the line where they show their true colors if that makes sense

 

[pinkmelodies]

Online, I am a social butterfly, I will talk to you simply cuz I never saw you before or because I am bored or simply want to talk

Irl, hell nah will I interact, its too scary

It's so hard making the first move

 

[Harmony_Starz]

It's so hard making the first move

Online I dont mind but irl I'm scared that the other person is bad or mean

 

[lexus]

No. I'm a very quiet person IRL and I don't know how to keep conversations going

 

[noctis]

not at all im a big introvert

 

[ning]

no not really

 

[Yuzuru]

No. In person, I don't approach first and what to talk about.
I personally find myself strange.

 

[dark_tranquility]

It is but so is the ditching

 

[Selfmate]

I actually have no trouble having people come up and wanting to get to know me. It's just down the line where they show their true colors if that makes sense

then you should also read sun tzu's art of war and there's another book called thick skin black heart lol

well then forgive my bluntness but how well do you truly know them if you they around and backstab or use you...

 

[_Sammy_]

No.. not me
I'm not social person anymore

 

[eclipsoul]

yes and no at the same time? i mean it's easy for me to approach new people and casually talk to them, but nof to mantain friendships since they usually keep in contact through social media that i do not use

 

[magikarp]

online yes
irl no 😭😭

 

[MK3AM]

no i used to have panic attacks just trying to