Official ✯ ✵ Mental Health Support✯ ✵ (4 Viewers)

[kodoku]

I have been seeing a 40yo man lately
he makes me sausages and eggs

hes nice to me

we watch gogglebox and fall asleep every night


honestly not so bad. it is bad but not THAT bad

 

[Wooyoungie]

I realized I'm listening to a lot of sad and depressive music lately. I guess it's because school is over and I have more time to think about everything and I usually overthink and end up lying in bed for hours and crying because of something I can't change... I just hope I won't go back to how I was feeling a year ago. I'm trying to keep my mind occupied with work or at least have music playing in the background just so that I'm not alone with my thoughts...

 

[kodoku]

I realized I'm listening to a lot of sad and depressive music lately. I guess it's because school is over and I have more time to think about everything and I usually overthink and end up lying in bed for hours and crying because of something I can't change... I just hope I won't go back to how I was feeling a year ago. I'm trying to keep my mind occupied with work or at least have music playing in the background just so that I'm not alone with my thoughts...

I think that's okay, crying can be healthy and we all have those phases. As long as it's not permanent and also try not to get into the habit of dwelling on things too much.. You know I'm always here if you wanna talk, my cute little sister

 

[Buttercup]

I never realized how much I like him until he’s moving away. We never had a one to one conversation, before which wouldn’t make sense why I burst into crying realizing I won’t ever see him again.. I know this sounds like a really pathetic problem since everyone has way worse problems than this but I can’t but help feel sad..

 

[kodoku]

I never realized how much I like him until he’s moving away. We never had a one to one conversation, before which wouldn’t make sense why I burst into crying realizing I won’t ever see him again.. I know this sounds like a really pathetic problem since everyone has way worse problems than this but I can’t but help feel sad..

your problem is valid, cutie <3 and that's really sweet hehe.. maybe you can contact him and let him know how you feel? should be easy enough these days

 

[Buttercup]

your problem is valid, cutie <3 and that's really sweet hehe.. maybe you can contact him and let him know how you feel? should be easy enough these days

Thanks.. I'm planning to contact him so we'll not lose in touch with each other.. But it really difficult since I don't know how to start a conversation and I'm a pretty awkward person in general.

 

[kodoku]

Thanks.. I'm planning to contact him so we'll not lose in touch with each other.. But it really difficult since I don't know how to start a conversation and I'm a pretty awkward person in general.

you could be casual about it and message him somewhere if talking face to face is too hard, I'll help you with what to say if you wanna

 

[Buttercup]

you could be casual about it and message him somewhere if talking face to face is too hard, I'll help you with what to say if you wanna

Thanks a lot!! I was planning to contact him when it's his birthday but I don't know when his birthday on so should I just contact him casually like you said?

 

[kodoku]

Thanks a lot!! I was planning to contact him when it's his birthday but I don't know when his birthday on so should I just contact him casually like you said?

no problem at all <3 I think talking to him casually is fine, but can you tell me some more details about you guys' story? do you know him from school? and how well do you know him?

 

[Wooyoungie]

I think that's okay, crying can be healthy and we all have those phases. As long as it's not permanent and also try not to get into the habit of dwelling on things too much.. You know I'm always here if you wanna talk, my cute little sister

Thank you so much <3 You always know how to cheer me up

 

[Wooyoungie]

I never realized how much I like him until he’s moving away. We never had a one to one conversation, before which wouldn’t make sense why I burst into crying realizing I won’t ever see him again.. I know this sounds like a really pathetic problem since everyone has way worse problems than this but I can’t but help feel sad..

I don't think your problem is pathetic. I'm glad you shared it with us here~ I think you should definitely contact him. When I was younger, something similar happened to me as well, but I made a mystake by not contacting him and I never saw him again nor he knows how I felt about him. I hope you will have enough courage to reach out to him somehow, via sns or any other way... Don't repeat my mistake and tell him how you feel before it is too late. I'm sure everything will turn out great <3

 

[Buttercup]

I don't think your problem is pathetic. I'm glad you shared it with us here~ I think you should definitely contact him. When I was younger, something similar happened to me as well, but I made a mystake by not contacting him and I never saw him again nor he knows how I felt about him. I hope you will have enough courage to reach out to him somehow, via sns or any other way... Don't repeat my mistake and tell him how you feel before it is too late. I'm sure everything will turn out great <3

Thank You Lory! I wasn't sure weather to post it here but I don't want all these thoughts inside of me eating me up. I think that now with your advice and kodoku's I think I have enough courage to reach out to him.

 

[Wooyoungie]

Thank You Lory! I wasn't sure weather to post it here but I don't want all these thoughts inside of me eating me up. I think that now with your advice and kodoku's I think I have enough courage to reach out to him.

I'm happy I could help You did the right thing by posting it because keeping your thoughts and feelings inside is never a good idea. I'm really glad, we'll keep our fingers crossed! I'm sure everything will go well, you'll see

 

[gongchan]

Spoiler

Just as I thought things had gotten better for me,,, it all turns upside down. As fucking expected. I’m done being ignored and abused and feeling unwanted nearly everywhere I go. Down done done.

 

[kodoku]

Spoiler

Just as I thought things had gotten better for me,,, it all turns upside down. As fucking expected. I’m done being ignored and abused and feeling unwanted nearly everywhere I go. Down done done.

[/SPOILER]who's abusing you and how...? please seek whatever help you can TT you are not alone in this, I won't ignore you or make you feel unwanted, ever, please keep pushing on <3[/SPOILER]

 

[potato]

Spoiler

Just as I thought things had gotten better for me,,, it all turns upside down. As fucking expected. I’m done being ignored and abused and feeling unwanted nearly everywhere I go. Down done done.

Spoiler

You're not at all unwanted here <3 And I hope you don't drag yourself down for what is happening to you. It isn't your fault and I hope you don't tell yourself that it is. Believing in yourself is key and I hope you can do that and realise how to overcome the situation you are in. And if you are receiving abuse, please seek help from someone else. No one deserves to be abused.

I just want you to remember: You are loved <3 In this thread, you are loved whoever you are and we will never try to do anything that will hurt you.

 

[gongchan]

[/SPOILER]who's abusing you and how...? please seek whatever help you can TT you are not alone in this, I won't ignore you or make you feel unwanted, ever, please keep pushing on <3[/SPOILER]

My peers,,, friends,,, everybody.
Thank you love <3

Spoiler

You're not at all unwanted here <3 And I hope you don't drag yourself down for what is happening to you. It isn't your fault and I hope you don't tell yourself that it is. Believing in yourself is key and I hope you can do that and realise how to overcome the situation you are in. And if you are receiving abuse, please seek help from someone else. No one deserves to be abused.

I just want you to remember: You are loved <3 In this thread, you are loved whoever you are and we will never try to do anything that will hurt you.

Thank you so much,,, I’m glad I have a place here at least <3

 

[kodoku]

My peers,,, friends,,, everybody.
Thank you love <3


Thank you so much,,, I’m glad I have a place here at least <3

Maybe you should consider cutting ties with toxic people that you can avoid? Fake friends are no good after all.

 

[gongchan]

Maybe you should consider cutting ties with toxic people that you can avoid? Fake friends are no good after all.

Yes, I've tried to but its honestly quite difficult when these are like some of the only people I have left that are close to me :/

 

[Sory]

Going outside is exhausting. Can't support the gaze of people. Can't stop shaking and crying. I just want to be locked up somewhere and never have to see strangers again.