audacity: a willingness to take bold risks (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

so I came to sit with a bunch of people during our break at work yesterday and this girl was like:

"oh I was just gossiping about you" lol..

and I just casually and jokingly said "again?"

.. so later she told me she was trying to arrange a night out and she told everyone I always get depressed on weekends and I was just thinking to myself......wat?!

I am ALWAYS depressed, not just on weekends and secondly it's not even true.. if anything I am not as depressed and stressed because I work less...
luckily (?) everyone knows how this girl is and that she's always talking badly about everyone as soon as they turn their back..... still I must ask myself..

but oh well.....it's nothing new....... have you ever caught anyone gossiping about you? if so, how did the situation go? ​

 

[Mew]

Honestly you seem to just work with terrible people.. Lol
New job maybe?

 

[kodoku]

Honestly you seem to just work with terrible people.. Lol
New job maybe?

this girl is really something. She has some good things about her but also some really bad ones... and yeah I do sadly, though ofc there are a few super great people there too hehe
and yes definitely, please xD

 

[Ahsoka]

Does people spreading rumors about you and not even trying to hide it count

 

[kodoku]

Does people spreading rumors about you and not even trying to hide it count

yup.. sorry this happened to you :((

 

[Ahsoka]

yup.. sorry this happened to you :((

Its okay, things happen and sometimes they suck. I'm just thankful I'm not around people like that anymore

 

[kodoku]

Its okay, things happen and sometimes they suck. I'm just thankful I'm not around people like that anymore

that's good to hear and yeah, it really makes a huge difference when you get rid of toxic people and surround yourself with those who believe in you :)

 

[Mew]

As for gossiping honestly I don't care as long as it isn't something that will affect my job, my life and my sons.
People can chat shit and assume all they want..
If they want to say to me.. Depending on my mood the saying 'chat shit, get hit' might be a reality.

I did have an gossiping thing when I was like 15...with this guy I dated for two weeks who I then broke up with (I was still in my trying to figure out my sexuality) so besides from kissing and one fingerings incident (which was horrible, pretty sure it contributed to my hatred of fingering) and his crying on my balcony stairwell waiting for me telling me he was the love of his life.. (Like what we didn't have much in common and hardly have conversations, cause he didn't want anyone to know we were dating)
He weeks later decided to talk shit about my mentally ill mother, said we had anal sex and amongst other things.. So I basically showed up with my god brother and a plank of wood with a rusty nail sticking out of it to his friends house where he was hiding, and tried to get him to come out so I could beat the shit out of him for lying.. He didn't come out and said he was sorry... After that all his friends thought he was a right dickhead and dropped him.

 

[kodoku]

As for gossiping honestly I don't care as long as it isn't something that will affect my job, my life and my sons.
People can chat shit and assume all they want..
If they want to say to me.. Depending on my mood the saying 'chat shit, get hit' might be a reality.

I did have an gossiping thing when I was like 15...with this guy I dated for two weeks who I then broke up with (I was still in my trying to figure out my sexuality) so besides from kissing and one fingerings incident (which was horrible, pretty sure it contributed to my hatred of fingering) and his crying on my balcony stairwell waiting for me telling me he was the love of his life.. (Like what we didn't have much in common and hardly have conversations, cause he didn't want anyone to know we were dating)
He weeks later decided to talk shit about my mentally ill mother, said we had anal sex and amongst other things.. So I basically showed up with my god brother and a plank of wood with a rusty nail sticking out of it to his friends house where he was hiding, and tried to get him to come out so I could beat the shit out of him for lying.. He didn't come out and said he was sorry... After that all his friends thought he was a right dickhead and dropped him.

wow that's awful I am so sorry, hopefully he learned his lesson and became a better human being...

 

[Mew]

wow that's awful I am so sorry, hopefully he learned his lesson and became a better human being...

Me too.. I hope everything worked out for him.
despite him being a dickhead to me lol I mean I suppose break ups are hard but I was very clear and honest in why it just wasn't working for me, but he had to be so petty and vindictive about it.. But we were hormonal teenagers I suppose.

 

[jasque]

Everyone i ever met is like that so I dont even bother with what they talk anymore

They keep talking I keep walking

 

[yeji]

oh god. why do people have to be this way. you don't deserve something like that.