What would you do, if you woke up the next day and your mom and dad were gone? (1 Viewer)

[ripiasuju]

You wouldn't cry or anything?

Im not really someone who expresses themselves through tears regardless.

I dont really view myself as having parents though i do my father ive seen only a couple times the past 10 years and my mother is more like an older sister or auntie if she died i would feel bad for her ofc but its not like im losing someone i cant live without. I moved out at 15 and dont any attachment to them whatsoever.

However losing a sibling would be 10x worse lol

I am already living without them, so I'd be fine when it comes to taking care of myself, but if they just disappeared somehow, I'd feel sad and sorry ofc

For some reason i found that first sentence funny

 

[Xueyang]

Do what I normally do since I don't live with them
My mother's dead and I don't see my father often cause he's difficult.

Im not really someone who expresses themselves through tears regardless.

I dont really view myself as having parents though i do my father ive seen only a couple times the past 10 years and my mother is more like an older sister or auntie if she died i would feel bad for her ofc but its not like im losing someone i cant live without. I moved out at 15 and dont any attachment to them whatsoever.

However losing a sibling would be 10x worse lol


For some reason i found that first sentence funny

Thanks for explaining! :D I was just surprised that some people don't really have emotional ties to their family. I actually don't consider myself to have a mom and dad until its like official. But technically i have like 3 moms and 3 dads. But i don't see my other 2 mom and 2 dads because of legal reasons but i feel like even tho i don't see them i would still cry if i found out that they had passed away, you know. I think that i want to be sorta like you because i just want to shrug it off and be like immune to pain but i'm not and i think that's a good and bad thing. Feeling bad or sad is not a weakness, i think that if your feeling anything other than complete nothing then in my opinion, your awesome. I don't want to sound like i'm judging you when i say this or judging any one for that matter. I just hope you sorta see where i was coming from when i asked why you didn't cry or when i asked any body why they didn't cry when they said that they wouldn't, you know.

 

[Xueyang]

Do what I normally do since I don't live with them
My mother's dead and I don't see my father often cause he's difficult.

You don't live with a guardian or a foster parent?

 

[Mew]

You don't live with a guardian or a foster parent?

No, I'm 30 now. The relationship I've had with my parents as a child was difficult...
My father was non existent majority of my life, he showed up once when I was 12/13 by that point he was a stranger to me. I didn't get to know him as a person until I was 18 and lived with him for a year, but even then he didn't know how to be a father, not that I needed him. Getting to know him as a person kinda shone a light of why he wasn't in been my life and why we don't connect as people. He gave me life so I can respect him in that nature but there's nothing tying us together but blood.
As for my mother... She was there in presence but not really supportive, her general personality was semi irresponsible and immature, alot of things came before the needs of her kids, then she was diagnosed as paranoid schizophrenic and whatever relationship that could be salvaged she denied when she was well as she refused to really come to terms with the stuff she did do to us when she wasn't sick, we didn't blame her for things she did when she was sick as we acknowledged that it wasn't her fault, but she never truly addressed anything, she would rather buy me off with alcohol rather than talk bout her lack of nurture and poor life choices than affected our upbringing.
Then she was diagnosed with cancer 7 years ago, by that point our relationship didn't exist but I took care of her regardless and had no issur doing so, since that's what I always did despite caring for my own baby at that time. When she died (2014) there was relief in a sense and a little bit of closure...despite our relationship never being repaired But the rest of my siblings came to realise that even though she was no longer there it didn't make much difference to them cause I was the one that looked after them majority of the time, of course it was sad for them losing her but they had me.

 

[Wingfrost]

I try not to think about stuff like that happening. Idk what I would do with myself.

 

[Wingfrost]

I try not to think about stuff like that happening. Idk what I would do with myself.

 

[yeji]

I can’t imagine it having my mom and my stepdad. I love them a lot and we are super close. Even just thinking about is just ...

 

[Deleted member 74]

As in dead? A bit dark but I'd probably get rid of myself at some point too, because they're one of the biggest reasons I live
But first, I would make sure my sisters grow up and go their own respective paths in life happily

 

[daesuki]

Never really was that close to them, as they both worked since I was young. Mom was always a mom, asking if I ate, or if I'm feeling well, but we never really spent time together outside of family dinner and when she had holidays off work. Dad never was home. He prioritizes work and Mom over me and my sister. If they disappeared, I'd feel sorry, and call the police to figure out what happened, but I wouldn't feel like everything I love is gone or anything.

 

[Xueyang]

Never really was that close to them, as they both worked since I was young. Mom was always a mom, asking if I ate, or if I'm feeling well, but we never really spent time together outside of family dinner and when she had holidays off work. Dad never was home. He prioritizes work and Mom over me and my sister. If they disappeared, I'd feel sorry, and call the police to figure out what happened, but I wouldn't feel like everything I love is gone or anything.

Oh ok i understand :D

 

[Tickita]

I saw Jimmy Neutron

It wasn't fun

 

[Magician]

I would be really worried if they disappeared without a trace

 

[uran]

Make onlyfans and get a hot boyfriend

 

[eclipsoul]

i mean it is my reality everyday to some extent, i haven't seen my father in years and my mom goes to work before i get up