How important are secrets to you? (1 Viewer)

[OnlyCalB]

Whether you have told someone your own secret, or someone else has told you their own secret... Are secrets important to you?

Do you trust someone enough to divulge something you hold dear, and wish them to not tell anyone else, for whatever reason?

Does someone trust you enough that they've told you something they hold close to their chest?

Secrets can be kind of sacred between those that know a certain something. It helps build trust and honesty, and ultimately it means you are close enough (or simply trust) someone enough. It can be a nice feeling to have, knowing someone is there for you to trust them in such a way.

Personally, my closest inner circle of friends is about as far as I go with secrets. There's not too much we don't know about each other. We've known each other for 25 years (since nursery/pre-school) and have grown up together. I trust them all unquestionably, and I know they trust me.

Or, has the cat been let out of the bag?

Have you ever revealed someone else's secret, when you weren't supposed to, for whatever reason?
If so, why?

Has someone revealed your secret that you told them not to tell anyone?
How did you feel after you found out?

 

[umpheri]

i think you have a secret with all this thread posting going on

 

[bulletproof]

I would talk to my closest friends about my secrets because I trust them enough. They also trust me, so it is a win win thing, we know things about each other and know that we wouldn't say

 

[OnlyCalB]

i think you have a secret with all this thread posting going on

 

[OnlyCalB]

I would talk to my closest friends about my secrets because I trust them enough. They also trust me, so it is a win win thing, we know things about each other and know that we wouldn't say

That second nature of knowing what can be shared and what shouldn't is great. I take it you've known each other for some time? :)

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

Whether you have told someone your own secret, or someone else has told you their own secret... Are secrets important to you?
Yes a few

Do you trust someone enough to divulge something you hold dear, and wish them to not tell anyone else, for whatever reason?
Depend on who it it

Does someone trust you enough that they've told you something they hold close to their chest?
Yes my "unknown friend" told me he was gay I still kept my mouth shut or year and will for years more.

Or, has the cat been let out of the bag?
Yeah my brother told my mom that I like BL but she just looks at me and boom everyone acts like nothing happen (do u know how embarrassing that is)

Have you ever revealed someone else's secret, when you weren't supposed to, for whatever reason?
Hell no I'm a very loyal friend and if someone reveals my secret then what do u expect me to do if it was on purpose (do the same thing back)

If so, why?

Has someone revealed your secret that you told them not to tell anyone?
Mostly my lil bro but when nice people ask me to keep a secret that exactly what i do

How did you feel after you found out?

*crying on the inside* awwwwww that person trust me that to tell me *stop crying* I WILL NEVER SAY SHIT UNTIL THEY TELL ME TO (loyal mode)

"ur secret is safe with me"

 

[bulletproof]

That second nature of knowing what can be shared and what shouldn't is great. I take it you've known each other for some time? :)

Exactly. I guess I just have more levels of friendship and the deepest things are only for the closest friends. But yes, we've known each other for a longer time. What about you?

 

[OnlyCalB]

Exactly. I guess I just have more levels of friendship and the deepest things are only for the closest friends. But yes, we've known each other for a longer time. What about you?

My closest friends I've known for 25 years lol. Since nursery/pre-school so we've literally grown up together. There is trust between is that is unbreakable for sure. :)

 

[Suzy]

I don't really have secrets to hide from anyone but people tell me their secrets and I keep then with me forever. I have never told someone else's secret to another person. I value trust.

 

[OnlyCalB]

Whether you have told someone your own secret, or someone else has told you their own secret... Are secrets important to you?
Yes a few

Do you trust someone enough to divulge something you hold dear, and wish them to not tell anyone else, for whatever reason?
Depend on who it it

Does someone trust you enough that they've told you something they hold close to their chest?
Yes my "unknown friend" told me he was gay I still kept my mouth shut or year and will for years more.

Or, has the cat been let out of the bag?
Yeah my brother told my mom that I like BL but she just looks at me and boom everyone acts like nothing happen (do u know how embarrassing that is)

Have you ever revealed someone else's secret, when you weren't supposed to, for whatever reason?
Hell no I'm a very loyal friend and if someone reveals my secret then what do u expect me to do if it was on purpose (do the same thing back)

If so, why?

Has someone revealed your secret that you told them not to tell anyone?
Mostly my lil bro but when nice people ask me to keep a secret that exactly what i do

How did you feel after you found out?

*crying on the inside* awwwwww that person trust me that to tell me *stop crying* I WILL NEVER SAY SHIT UNTIL THEY TELL ME TO (loyal mode)

"ur secret is safe with me"

That's the thing about having siblings isn't it! They don't tend to keep secrets until you're older lmao.

 

[OnlyCalB]

I don't really have secrets to hide from anyone but people tell me their secrets and I keep then with me forever. I have never told someone else's secret to another person. I value trust.

Trust, honesty and loyalty. Three traits that should be valued most above all else.

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

That's the thing about having siblings isn't it! They don't tend to keep secrets until you're older lmao.

i feel u T-T like how do u tell ur mom ur a BL an I'm not sure if she knows or not but i will not be telling her ever or anyone and trust me he won't say shit cause i got secrets of his that will destroy him MUHAHAHHAHAHAHAAA (god I'm cruel)

 

[OnlyCalB]

I've yet to create a friends list to tag people for my random threads. I guess it's because I rarely make these types of threads lol.

Hope you don't mind me tagging you.

@JakeyWantsCakey @Lady_Grey @vogue @RandAlThor @dnb @DarlingBlue @Reo @AmysTeri @Yachii @Saythename17 @eclipsoul @mysteric @Mr_Boogie

 

[Willow]

I don't usually open my heart to anyone... But I don't have any secrets

 

[Abeamus]

I don't open up to many people and for that reason if I get told to keep something a secret then I will as it should be up to that person if they want their information shared and who to.

 

[RandAlThor]

Well i am a guy and we do not talk about stuff did you not know that?.........

i have a group of friends similar to yours we have know each other since the 80's, and yea we really trust each other.

betrayed my trust. yep alot actually usually female, but failure to give trust will make it harder to receive.
never deep secrets most failed long before that point.

 

[AmysTeri]

Do you trust someone enough to divulge something you hold dear, and wish them to not tell anyone else, for whatever reason?
Not really. If I have something that I don't want anyone to know, it's probably going to the grave with me. The only person in my life I trust enough to tell a heavy secret is my mom and, well, not everything is appropriate to come from a daughter to a mother xD

Does someone trust you enough that they've told you something they hold close to their chest?
I've always been quiet, so my friends often used me as a soundboard and a secret keeper. I did not like being told secrets. Secrets are a burden sometimes. Secrets can make you look at people differently. Secrets told by people who don't actually want accountability are the worst.

Have you ever revealed someone else's secret, when you weren't supposed to, for whatever reason? If so, why?
Yes. To my mom. In high school, my friend thought she was pregnant but could not buy her own test. I had my mom buy it. So, while I didn't divulge the entirety of what my friend had been up to, the implication was enough.

Has someone revealed your secret that you told them not to tell anyone?
How did you feel after you found out?
Nope because I don't share 'em. Well, my mom tells all my business to all her sisters, but other than that xD

 

[OnlyCalB]

I don't usually open my heart to anyone... But I don't have any secrets

If you don't have secrets, maybe it is because you are openly honest with people?

 

[OnlyCalB]

Well i am a guy and we do not talk about stuff did you not know that?.........

So true. But that's usually bedroom things we don't share lmao.

Women on the other hand have like a tell all code with their friends, I swear!

 

[Willow]

If you don't have secrets, maybe it is because you are openly honest with people?

I tend to be really honest