｡･ﾟﾟ･ Double Standards Much? ･ﾟﾟ･｡ (1 Viewer)

[SHlNEE]

BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
AND SPILL THE TEA ON HERE

DO YOU TREAT PEOPLE WITH DOUBLE STANDARDS OFTEN?
IF SO, WHY?

everyone does it sometimes, same thing about lying
everyone lies.... people who say they never lie, that is not humanily possible

but like lying... there is many people who do it more than others
sometimes so much that they become a very dangerous person in ways (them who lie too much)

so..... do you treat people with double standards much?
everyone does it but i honestly feel like i don't do it much it at all
and when i do... like tonight, i realise it instantly and i admit to it
i don't have a pride issue and deny it
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[Lovely_Cornchips]

I don't think so but I may be biased towards myself.

 

[SHlNEE]

I don't think so but I may be biased towards myself.

meh
it is not that hard, for someone healthy in the brains(i assume you are), to be truthful to yourself and about who you really are
and how you act towards others

so think again?

 

[raymondchouku]

I feel like if I say... This thread will turn to a sensitive one. lol... but there are certain people I hold to different [higher] standards.. Other times I let things go for certain people. For instance, I have this relative who does the most ridiculous thing; she frequently uses the gay slur [you all know what one I mean] around me knowing I am a gay man. No one else in the family uses it and I know anyone outside of the family would be reamed beyond repair, but I give her a pass... well... because we were raised together and somewhat close..

While we are on the topic there is another double standard. It pisses me off when a straight person says that word, but when a gay male/female says that word to another in a way as to insult them I find it just disgusting and tasteless.. This is referring to a pundit [who used it even though he grew up in times where it was a lot harder not being straight] who used it to degrade others who were of a different political party.

 

[SHlNEE]

I feel like if I say... This thread will turn to a sensitive one. lol... but there are certain people I hold to different [higher] standards.. Other times I let things go for certain people. For instance, I have this relative who does the most ridiculous thing; she frequently uses the gay slur [you all know what one I mean] around me knowing I am a gay man. No one else in the family uses it and I know anyone outside of the family would be reamed beyond repair, but I give her a pass... well... because we were raised together and somewhat close..

While we are on the topic there is another double standard. It pisses me off when a straight person says that word, but when a gay male/female says that word to another in a way as to insult them I find it just disgusting and tasteless.. This is referring to a pundit [who used it even though he grew up in times where it was a lot harder not being straight] who used it to degrade others who were of a different political party.

you can be real with me darling

so if i get you right
you mean you don't like the double standard when it comes to a certain word straight and gay people use?
you don't like it gay people also use it even though when its used against them they are offended?

the double standard i do not like is concerning racism....
not sure if i should say it
oh fak it im going to say it because its the truth

i don't like the fact that many ''certain'' community type of people..........you know who i mean probably
are always complaining about racism (though i understand the reasoning / background etc)
YET THEY DO IT THEMSELVES AS WELL
more often than they probably realise
and they think they got the right to do so to us? us people who live in the here and now ? who got nothing to do with the past? WE
ARE NOT FAULTY, WE PRESENT INDV DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG
yet we are being blamed for it 24/7
i don't like the double standards they are offended when racism goes on towards them but they simply do it back to us like its nothing
some of them are as bad as white people but that shall never be brought up or else..........

if someone stabs me in the back, does not mean i have to do it to people as well, I MEAN , TELL YOU GET ME WITH THIS

 

[raymondchouku]

you mean you don't like the double standard when it comes to a certain word straight and gay people use?
you don't like it gay people also use it even though when its used against them they are offended?

Honestly, I think most straight people are afraid to use it.. lol... But I don't like the way in which some gay people use it. If its a joke then you can tell by someone's tone. But if its said in an aggressive manner the gloves are off..

 

[Jimimis]

Double standard is my middle name ✨

 

[SHlNEE]

Double standard is my middle name ✨

OH really?

 

[Tickita]

One, how long does it take for you to do those gradients? You keep the color codes saved somewhere?

 

[SHlNEE]

One, how long does it take for you to do those gradients? You keep the color codes saved somewhere?

such an off topic post, love

as to answer your question........
the goblins and fairies who protect this kpop forum from evil twitter fans came to me one night in my dreams and told me whenever i make certain threads, they will rainbowfy it for me
so i guess we will never know

 

[Tickita]

such an off topic post, love

as to answer your question........
the goblins and fairies who protect this kpop forum from evil twitter fans came to me one night in my dreams and told me whenever i make certain threads, they will rainbowfy it for me
so i guess we will never know

Fair enough, I had to know

 

[SHlNEE]

Fair enough, I had to know

Haha
I don't keep any codes
I just use a tool