i think mainly with ateez the thing was that i had given them away in the past to help others or to complete my other priority sets which i try not to do anymore and yet i never got hongjoong once even tho i had gotten every other member more than one time
nowadays it is just kind of a joke that i get my bias last bc i don't actually care unless its Youngjae my ult or something.
speaking of being 1 card away i am one card away in three different sets right now

furthermore you've helped me when i was stuck on three different sets with just one missing. the biggest one being hyungwon bc i had been waiting like 4 months for his card