About Complaining... (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Would you say you complain a lot? And why do you do it?
Is it a bad habit or does it make you feel better?
Do you complain about important issues or are you the kind of person who complains about everything?

me: I've noticed that complaining actually often makes me feel worse, so I've been trying to avoid it. I think that nobody enjoys the company of people who constantly complain and we all have something to be grateful for too. However, I do understand the need to express yourself when you're going through a tough time so yeah... as long as you're not just a person always spreading negativity...

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Hmmmm I don't really know...I think I complain a lot but most of the time it's a joke? Like the other day I was so tired I just didn't want to work so I moaned about everything but it was funny more than grating and annoying. Other times though I do complain about more serious things like two group projects I'm in that aren't going well right now and my partners aren't keeping in touch with me well or anything...even though....I'm trying to talk to them.

 

[GoldenBunny]

Yes, I'm a master level ranter and just like expressing myself, but as I've gotten a bit older learned that it can really impact people around me/can be overwhelming for others/makes me seem like I care more than I do, so I've backed way off. It's also not good for me, so I try to not get truly worked up! <--- ideal

 

[Crackhead]

I complain biiiig time, but I wish I wasn't, idk I feel like I can not complain for awhile but then again I get really stressed and nervous etc and I just have to bc I would of explode, which happened once in high school not a nice sight lmfao.

Sometimes I wish I can endure what I go through but ik I couldn't do it so yeah.