News AOA Jimin apologized to Mina. (1 Viewer)

[Ashla_K]

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[Abeamus]

I don't see how Jimin couldn't possibly remember a single thing Mina said unless she has actual memory issues so I don't blame Mina for thinking she was disingenuous but well maybe this will be a wake up call for Jimin at least to think more carefully about her actions if she was actually upset.

 

[kodoku]

all of this is so horrible....... :( beautiful and precious Mina, please take care and get better.. and everyone involved too <3

 

[spicy_illusion]

It's a bit strange that Jimin said she couldn't remember anything, maybe she's saying that to try and lessen the damge that has already been done?
I'm happy Mina will be getting the help she needs.

 

[Ashla_K]

It's a bit strange that Jimin said she couldn't remember anything, maybe she's saying that to try and lessen the damge that has already been done?
I'm happy Mina will be getting the help she needs.

I think that is the most important thing here, Mina has decided to get help and finally have some closure.

 

[spicy_illusion]

I think that is the most important thing here, Mina has decided to get help and finally have some closure.

Yes, once she gets the help she needs, she can start to move on and recover from the life she had and start a new life and have a fresh start.

 

[maruberry]

That doesn't sound like a proper apology to me, that sounds like emotional manipulation to me.
Threatening to kill herself or asking if she should? That is just manipulating Mina into accepting her apology and making HERSELF the victim.

Mina has no.... obligation to forgive or to accept the apology, but Jimin put her in a situation where not accepting would've made Mina seem like the unreasonable one. + Jimin also tried to make Mina seem unreasonable and stupid by claiming that she thought everything was already resolved.

This just made me dislike Jimin even more.

 

[maruberry]

Honestly fuck Jimin, this "apology" really showed her true colours rn.

 

[spicy_illusion]

That doesn't sound like a proper apology to me, that sounds like emotional manipulation to me.
Threatening to kill herself or asking if she should? That is just manipulating Mina into accepting her apology and making HERSELF the victim.

Mina has no.... obligation to forgive or to accept the apology, but Jimin put her in a situation where not accepting would've made Mina seem like the unreasonable one. + Jimin also tried to make Mina seem unreasonable and stupid by claiming that she thought everything was already resolved.

This just made me dislike Jimin even more.

Yes, now that you say it, I have to agree.
This was not a genuine apology and it seems to be in Jimin's nature that she would do this.

It's amazing how we get to know a person in just one day.

 

[maruberry]

Yes, now that you say it, I have to agree.
This was not a genuine apology and it seems to be in Jimin's nature that she would do this.

It's amazing how we get to know a person in just one day.

Forgive me or I will kill myself.... ain't an apology

It shows Jimin was apologizing for HER OWN SAKE and not because she felt she had wronged Mina in any way.
She was apologizing so she herself can move on with her day with the knowledge that even if she may have done something wrong, it's all good!

The apology was in no way about Mina's feelings here and I feel so BAD for Mina bcs that tactic obviously WORKED on her.

 

[jasque]

It annoys me so much that Mina needs to apologize on instagram, Jimin should be the one saying "I'm sorry" 100 times on a post.

This feels so much as if she thinks she was a nuisance, when she was right in pointing the issue.

Do they want people to think she was coerced into posting that or what?

 

[maruberry]

It annoys me so much that Mina needs to apologize on instagram, Jimin should be the one saying "I'm sorry" 100 times on a post.

This feels so much as if she thinks she was a nuisance, when she was right in pointing the issue.

Do they want people to think she was coerced into posting that or what?

Honestly if her mental state is as bad as she is insinuating, I can believe her posting this of her free will, because it looks like Jimin succeeded in manipulating her into accepting the apology and invalidating Mina's feelings.

 

[jasque]

Honestly if her mental state is as bad as she is insinuating, I can believe her posting this of her free will, because it looks like Jimin succeeded in manipulating her into accepting the apology and invalidating Mina's feelings.

Even then, this is so humiliating... it makes me miss those formal apology letters, sigh.

 

[lexus]

Jimin "not remembering anything" is the most BS excuse I've ever heard. Her "apology" didn't seem genuine at all. She's probably not even sorry for what she did to Mina. She's just sorry that she got called out on it and is just trying to save her own ass.

 

[Ashla_K]

That doesn't sound like a proper apology to me, that sounds like emotional manipulation to me.
Threatening to kill herself or asking if she should? That is just manipulating Mina into accepting her apology and making HERSELF the victim.

Mina has no.... obligation to forgive or to accept the apology, but Jimin put her in a situation where not accepting would've made Mina seem like the unreasonable one. + Jimin also tried to make Mina seem unreasonable and stupid by claiming that she thought everything was already resolved.

This just made me dislike Jimin even more.

I totally agree, It seems like Jimin was forced by the company to do this.

 

[Ashla_K]

It annoys me so much that Mina needs to apologize on instagram, Jimin should be the one saying "I'm sorry" 100 times on a post.

This feels so much as if she thinks she was a nuisance, when she was right in pointing the issue.

Do they want people to think she was coerced into posting that or what?

They made her feel bad for making this public. It's honestly so sad to watch, she is the victim here and yet she feels guilty for exposing her situation. Well, at least Mina seems to have reached a point to start healing, whether the apology was sincere or not.

 

[PrideInBaek]

That isn't an apology. That is a threat.
I hope to never see the woman's face on any shows.
Mina needs love and support. I hope she's surrounded by people who genuinely care for her.
Also, showing up with the rest of the members and managers? Wtf?
I might've had a panic attack if my bully showed up with so many people at my doorstep, thinking they'll all attack me.

 

[Darkseid]

Clearly Mina didn't feel the apology is genuine but I'm happy she's decided to close this chapter and move on. Hopefully she's able to be at peace. I read the other AOA members visited her too, hopefully they can look after her.

Going by what Mina says here, I'm pretty disappointed in Jimin. This is classic manipulation and gaslighting, guilt tripping the other person into accepting an apology. Even then Mina questions herself, saying maybe she misunderstood. Honestly I feel really terrible for her, I honestly hope she gets all the help and support she deserves.

 

[dooh]

i didnt read it, just saw quotes of you guys " "not remembering anything" "
If Jimin did really say that, WOW.. thats the worst thing you can say.. atleast be human enough and admit, hell even deny,
BUT "not remembering anything".... smh³²³²³²³²³²³²³²³
usually i am really neutral, as i already stated.. but this tells a story

edit: after giving it more thought.. well you cant admit something you are not aware of
So that statement of me was stupid!

 

[blueberries]

Tbh, people have different viewpoints to situation and someone who bullied other might not be even be aware they were bullying. So for some older things I think it's possible she didn't remember as those moment likely weren't as emotional and big for her as they were to Mina.

That's rly weird apology though.. and what was company thinking too. Ofc it's going to just make it worse for all parties if they show up there like mafia and Jimin threatens to kill herself..