no, no, god no! no one should ever say that! unacceptable. i hate comments like that and all their variations. dont know what that person was thinking but i dont see a situation where saying that is ok or goes over wellWhen my neighbor asked me at the age of ten if "I lost weight". It's bothered me to this day.
"You should smile more"
what is with people and their smile fetish? i think its fine to just have your normal face and not be grinning like a loon all the time. then again i'm always getting my face critiqued by some guy. one time i was dancing with a guy at the club and he was like "Why do you smile when you dance?" like its creepy. i guess i was having fun? welllll he ruined that.