do ppl with low standard ever realize that they are the problem? (1 Viewer)

[burnenemy]

they always say they want someone nice who can breathe because they have low self esteem and always blame society ,celeb for their own insecurity

oh yea ,your standard is so loww yet u still single - why?

nice ppl aint that rare

some of them even like me - but i dont want them because they do not suit my taste at all

i guess that i could intro them but i am not sure whether they want someone with low self esteem aka not charming

 

[raymondchouku]

hmm... I suppose this applies to the type of women who claim men are scum, because they seem to attract only liars and cheaters.

 

[burnenemy]

hmm... I suppose this applies to the type of women who claim men are scum, because they seem to attract only liars and cheaters.

yea ,yet most of them are despo as heck ,full of ego ,love to shove own opinion on others and then claim that improving themselves = changing themselves

scums like me too but i aint gonna dwell any longer because it is useless

 

[raymondchouku]

then claim that improving themselves = changing themselves

I feel like I miss your point. Improving oneself often leads to change in one's personality characteristics. Unless you mean opportunistic change, whereby one puts on a pretense of change to avoid criticism for past decisions. For instance, a person who is a recovering alcoholic becomes self-righteous against those who exhibit traits of what she/he used to be. Is this the type of thing you meant?

scums like me too but i aint gonna dwell any longer because it is useless

such self mortification...

 

[burnenemy]

I feel like I miss your point. Improving oneself often leads to change in one's personality characteristics. Unless you mean opportunistic change, whereby one puts on a pretense of change to avoid criticism for past decisions. For instance, a person who is a recovering alcoholic becomes self-righteous against those who exhibit traits of what she/he used to be. Is this the type of thing you meant?


such self mortification...

improving yourself means ditch bad habits ,compromising with others ,be more confident ,dress up better etc etc .i dont care tho as long as my life is improving .nobody wanna be with someone terrible right? if u want good stuff then u have to be good otherwise be alone forever or date someone average / below average like most ppl while salivating other ppl everyday

imma is trying to be more rational .i actually hate being emotional lmao