Do you struggle with present you and past you? (4 Viewers)

[Abeamus]

The past is there for you to have as perspective for experience and it's okay to have done things that you're not proud of like maybe you scammed someone since you didn't know value very well or took something without returning it. It's fine to have those things in the past but what will separate you from that person is the person you are today and using that perspective and experience to do things the right way where you can.

Sometimes you can't make it up to people and that's something you'll have to be okay with but ultimately you should focus on the things you can control and not what you can't. You can either put energy into focusing on your regrets which you'll always have them and at most you can do is make peace with them and focus that energy into having the output into the world that you'd want to have yourself as the person you are now and will be tomorrow is what you can control.

 

[ani07]

past I would say. not really struggle, but I would do some things differently

 

[Tickita]

I used to be embarrassed of past self, but I embrace all stages of my life.

 

[alo]

oh i struggle with me in general, past and present

i mean don't worry, i've got help, but i'm trying to figure out what's wrong before i figure out how to fix it.

 

[Selfmate]

why don't you see the journey as character development/growth?

we all have a past and there are some things in the past that we did that we aren't proud of or even that past us was a horrible person

but the positive thing to focus on is one has changed from that and moved on to be a better person no?