Does anyone know this feeling? (1 Viewer)

[frocho]

It's a feeling where it's hard to explain but it's when you see someone and you see another person with them and you realize you can never compete with that person even though you love the other person so you try to ignore it but it just ends up hurting you more?

 

[dark_tranquility]

Isn't that what jealously is or holding a grudge?

 

[litc]

Nah, if I just see someone with someone, it doesn't mean anything and I suppose I could have been jealous when I was younger, but I'm at the point where if I like someone (tbh I do have a crush rn) and if they date someone else, if they (or rather she ig) genuinely likes the other person, and they make her happy, and they treat each other well, like each other etc., I would be genuinely just happy for her happiness and fine with us being friends, no jealousy at all

her being happy >>>>
regardless of whoever it's with

 

[frocho]

Isn't that what jealously is or holding a grudge?

Kind of but you're happy for them but you're hurting so much inside but you would never do anything against the other person and you aren't exactly jealous of them because you know they're happier with them than they ever would've been with you.

 

[dark_tranquility]

Kind of but you're happy for them but you're hurting so much inside but you would never do anything against the other person and you aren't exactly jealous of them because you know they're happier with them than they ever would've been with you.

I couldn't do that personally speaking.
I would be spewin' over it.

Kind of clingy a bit

 

[seungfloral]

Isn't that what jealously is or holding a grudge?

More like insecurity and envy.

To op
U might never know if u are someone's type until u confess to them. Physical attraction might be a factor but in the end we all shrivel up as we age and we remain with our souls and personalities.
Also even if it doesnt work out with someone doesnt mean u dont measure up to whatever beauty standards, they just dont feel the same way, and thats also fine. Someone will

 

[ProudOrbit]

It's a feeling where it's hard to explain but it's when you see someone and you see another person with them and you realize you can never compete with that person even though you love the other person so you try to ignore it but it just ends up hurting you more?

Been there
seen it too