Does the pain of loss ever get better? (1 Viewer)

[Day]

It's been over a year and I still can't look at his photos. I watched a 7 second video of him and now I'm crying uncontrollably. When will it stop hurting so bad?

 

[cocomelon]

everyone has their own speed. you will one day, don't worry.

 

[Day]

everyone has their own speed. you will one day, don't worry.

Thank you Sally ❤

 

[Villains]

everyone’s different. a day will come when you will be healed of your pain. i wish healing for you 🤍

 

[Ahsoka]

Like others said it takes a different time for everyone, but for most people it does lessen eventually. Hoping the best for you

 

[Jewel]

As someone who has traumas because of loss all I can say is that it gets more bearable. With time you will heal enough to keep going especially for them.

 

[Tickita]

Yes it does. Take your time.

 

[ChiaraStar169]

Grief has no timeline, as others have said. It may take one person like a few months, but it might take the next person over a year. I've never experienced a loss like that before (the closest I came was when my gramma died, but that was pretty sudden), but yeah, it'll get better over time.

 

[athenaaa]

I recently lost a really really close friend of mine (and by recently I mean not even two weeks ago). Grief has no timeline like the others have said and we all have our own ways of coping with it. I’m probably not doing it in a healthy way: keeping my schedule busy so I don’t think about it.

 

[Day]

I recently lost a really really close friend of mine (and by recently I mean not even two weeks ago). Grief has no timeline like the others have said and we all have our own ways of coping with it. I’m probably not doing it in a healthy way: keeping my schedule busy so I don’t think about it.

I am so sorry, please take care of yourself.

 

[athenaaa]

I am so sorry, please take care of yourself.

You take care of yourself as well and if you ever need to talk I’m here to listen and I’m sure theres others in your life who are too 💖

 

[Discipline]

You do get eventually over a loss.

At first, you may go through denial, like someone is trying to pull your leg, or no way that the person you knew/loved is gone, they can’t be?

then the grief sinks in, it can last weeks, months or years, depending on the person and your relationship with them. You’ll see them in every little thing that ever related to them, some memories will make you happy, others will make you sad.

Then acceptance, it’s the way of life unfortunately. You’ll live on, them in your memory. The reminder of their absence will become lesser, and it will be less bittersweet.

just remember it’s okay to cry on someone’s shoulders, don’t mourn by yourself, it can be worse that way