fakeness, fakeness ...... (1 Viewer)

kodoku · 22 May 2020

what do you think about it? how do you deal with it? how fake are you or those around you? :O

I believe a certain amount of it is neccessary to get through life successfully and that's okay, as long as you do your best to live in a way that doesn't harm others.. “all the world's a stage and all the men and women merely players...” yeah, it's true.. we're all a little different depending on who we are with, right? me too, I sometimes laugh or go along with what others say even though I don't agree and find it wrong, just to get by somehow....... but there are so many people around me who are just pure posion and suck out the energy out of me with their gossip, lies, and crazy bitterness.. it makes me sad and even kinda scares me at times tbh :/ I avoid many people, I've cut some more ties recently, but it's not enough. Not enough to be free of those people and there's not enough time with the people I do like either.. I really need to change things because I'm always so tired and not really feeling okay most of the time and this is definitely a bit part of it the problem, but the situation is difficult.... But yeah, I've definitely learned that it's so very important who you spend your time with, so please try to surrround yourself with those who are good for you, even being on your own is better than being with people who don't mean well...

Willow · 22 May 2020

I don't think I am fake. I am more the opposite, too honest and too kind

jasque · 22 May 2020

I don't worry a lot about being authentic or fake.

I try to avoid being annoying to others though.

TRAUMATHON · 22 May 2020

some people might think i'm fake because i'm too nice but that's because i'm canadian <3

daesuki · 22 May 2020

I'm a little fake, because I don't like to offend people. I have my own opinions, but I'll try to say "i see where you're coming from, or I can kind of agree with you," even if I really don't because I don't like fighting. I can never tell if someone's fake unless they're very very obvious.

dark_tranquility · 22 May 2020

I am two faced a lot of the time. But that's more of a self defense mechanism than being dishonest imo.
You always have to look after yourself first and foremost, from those that try to use you.

Mew · 22 May 2020

I'm not fake I don't think, I just don't say things that are unecessary, if you ask me honestly about anything I reply honestly though. But people tend to assume my personality traits or create an ideal in what I should be like without actually knowing me...so when parts of my personality come out, its unpredictable to say the least.