Hmm.... well for the majority of it has been Hell with small good highlights,
currently its stable but very incomplete with a lot of struggle still present.
It is what it is really.
I just got handed bad cards.
As for Family, Dead Mother, strained relationship with my father (cause he wasn't present in my life til 18+, when he was he was still a but of a lying dick, still is but he's trying lol), Siblings (Technically half siblings) we all have our issues, health related and mental issues stemming from our upbringing and my mother's schznophrenia (mainly the frenzied episodes she had where we were put in danger or emotional tormented mainly me & my sister) but we make it work in a distant but caring sort of way since we live together will apart from one of us, who is in his own world and is hardly home...but thats another issue in itself.
We don't talk to extended family due to a number reasons and judgement they have of us despite not know much about us or how we have copied through these years, apart from small episodes where they had to step in to avoid us going into care before i had reached the age of 18. They pity us mostly despite us doing fine considering, we're all working and have a place to live, none of us are dead, gang affliated (my brother came close), in prison or junkies (which is a higher probability for our type of upbringing), while their children hide behind fake good images do bad stuff they accuse us of, we know they do, have proof they do so we could be petty dish all their dirty secrets to their very ill born again christian mother but thats not who we are, so we cut them out.
I won't go into my (filipino) dad's side of the family thats a whole another bunch of internal conflict, im fine with everyone tho, besides my grand father, i tend to work as a civil point between my dad and some of his own siblings... yeah My dad's really...difficult.
My son's quite intelligent but also has social anxiety and signs of ADHD (were looking into it with doctors and such), still he's one of the good things to come from a life of Bullshit and for the fact my fertility is really shit, i still worry though cause he can't do contact sports due to having one working kidney but he's perfectly fine.
Probably typed a little more than i needed to, but its still the tip of the iceberg so to speak...plus its doesn't really phase me to much to talk about depending on what it is..i just have personal stories and experience for years. lol
But like i said it is what it is, Life is just a special sort of game we play, some play on easy, some play on hard. xD