Have you ever been rejected by ur crush? (1 Viewer)

[Park_Jimin]

Yes...

Though I was pretty embarrassed (it happened in primary school)
I wanted to hide but I survived it


Anyways have you been rejected and if so how did u handle it ?​

 

[MieDae]

no

cuz ive only had one and now ive been dating her for 4 years

 

[Park_Jimin]

no

cuz ive only had one and now ive been dating her for 4 years

Thats a win win for you

 

[MieDae]

Thats a win win for you

also i love your profile
I'm listening to BTS rn lol

 

[Park_Jimin]

also i love your profile
I'm listening to BTS rn lol

Thanks!!! Im a huge Army

What song are u listening to ?

 

[MieDae]

Thanks!!! Im a huge Army

What song are u listening to ?

My Girlfriend (@MoonKissed) and I are new to BTS so we are learning slowly

Normal

 

[Going_Under]

My Girlfriend (@MoonKissed) and I are new to BTS so we are learning slowly

Normal

I WAS AN ARMY WAY BEFORE YOU WERE DONT EVEN I AM NOT NEW

 

[Going_Under]

Nope
Same thing as dae

 

[MieDae]

I WAS AN ARMY WAY BEFORE YOU WERE DONT EVEN I AM NOT NEW

true

 

[lexus]

No because I don’t have the guts to do that

 

[HyuneSuga]

I've never had the confidence to ever ask a crush out
Only time was when I was 12 and first year of high school so I got my friend to ask him out for me and he was like ew hell no.

I've never asked A guy out since. I've had many boyfriends but they all asked the question me I have never.

I once talked to a guy I like over discord and well he choose an online girl over me so yeah :,) I got no confidence and accepting I'll never get another boyfriend

 

[Park_Jimin]

I've never had the confidence to ever ask a crush out
Only time was when I was 12 and first year of high school so I got my friend to ask him out for me and he was like ew hell no.

I've never asked A guy out since. I've had many boyfriends but they all asked the question me I have never.

I once talked to a guy I like over discord and well he choose an online girl over me so yeah :,) I got no confidence and accepting I'll never get another boyfriend

Im sorry to hear that

But it's okay there are plenty of fish in the sea

 

[HugeBakkaeMotae]

I've never had the confidence to ever ask a crush out
Only time was when I was 12 and first year of high school so I got my friend to ask him out for me and he was like ew hell no.

I've never asked A guy out since. I've had many boyfriends but they all asked the question me I have never.

I once talked to a guy I like over discord and well he choose an online girl over me so yeah :,) I got no confidence and accepting I'll never get another boyfriend

I don't know if this will help you but it helps me a lot when somebody mistreats me to think that if I change my behaviour because of it I let them win, it might just work because I have an ungodly amount of pride that is more important than anything else but if you think about it objectively and feel confident in the fact that you did nothing wrong then there is no reason a 12 year old from however long ago should hold so much power over you that you're still reacting to it.

I live by the words "When in doubt, be honest", basically meaning that you can never do wrong as long as you are being honest even if it isn't always what somebody wants to hear and there's nothing more honest than openly admitting your feelings. Now a rejection isn't something bad per se so you shouldn't be thinking of it as letting someone "win" but the point remains that nobody else should dictate your feelings when you are being honest.

Trust me when I say there is someone who will say yes just as there is always someone who will say no for every person on this earth, even your most favorite idol would be rejected by some and it's not a reflection of yours or their worth but just simple biology, not everybody is compatible, but everybody is compatible with someone - so I really would like it if you didn't stop trying!

Also don't forget that everyone asking you out is going through the same thing so it isn't very fair to expect someone else to take the first step. Imo, it's going to be hard to get another boyfriend if you refuse to take risks and even harder to keep one.

 

[Snailmin]

I was 10 years old and have a guy in my class a note that said ”do you want to be my boyfriend?” I told him to open it when he got home and the next day he said ”sorry” and gave back the note. Now when I am older I know I was too small to be in a relationship. And I am not disappointed, nowday I think I was stupid (in a good and hilarious way)

 

[uran]

no uran gets what he wants usually

 

[HyuneSuga]

I don't know if this will help you but it helps me a lot when somebody mistreats me to think that if I change my behaviour because of it I let them win, it might just work because I have an ungodly amount of pride that is more important than anything else but if you think about it objectively and feel confident in the fact that you did nothing wrong then there is no reason a 12 year old from however long ago should hold so much power over you that you're still reacting to it.

I live by the words "When in doubt, be honest", basically meaning that you can never do wrong as long as you are being honest even if it isn't always what somebody wants to hear and there's nothing more honest than openly admitting your feelings. Now a rejection isn't something bad per se so you shouldn't be thinking of it as letting someone "win" but the point remains that nobody else should dictate your feelings when you are being honest.

Trust me when I say there is someone who will say yes just as there is always someone who will say no for every person on this earth, even your most favorite idol would be rejected by some and it's not a reflection of yours or their worth but just simple biology, not everybody is compatible, but everybody is compatible with someone - so I really would like it if you didn't stop trying!

Also don't forget that everyone asking you out is going through the same thing so it isn't very fair to expect someone else to take the first step. Imo, it's going to be hard to get another boyfriend if you refuse to take risks and even harder to keep one.

hey that is a good way to see it as.

I mean if im talking to like a guy I really like and he keeps the conversation going. I sometimes give like little hints. there is a guy i fancy atm we flirt and he knows I fancy him but everytime we make plans to catch up it never happens so I guess that is why I hold back. Esp with the other guy too. but he made me shy and nervous and didn't know how to keep the conversation going :,)

but yeah ive never proper asked a crush out but I do hint. and the comment that even our idols have been rejected kinda does give me a little hope :,)

 

[HyuneSuga]

Im sorry to hear that

But it's okay there are plenty of fish in the sea

oh it was decades ago but thank you. I'm just so shy around guys these days that im sooo shy to ask them out

 

[ChiaraStar169]

no bc I never asked anyone out... I've had crushes, though, but none of them have ever worked out.

 

[Tickita]

I'm the one who rejects people crushing on me

 

[Park_Jimin]

I was 10 years old and have a guy in my class a note that said ”do you want to be my boyfriend?” I told him to open it when he got home and the next day he said ”sorry” and gave back the note. Now when I am older I know I was too small to be in a relationship. And I am not disappointed, nowday I think I was stupid (in a good and hilarious way)

I can relate, I was too young, now Idaf about my rejection I got years ago