he apologized (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

my coworker/friend apologized for saying weird and overly dark things to me............ it's still just as sad though because he only apologized for saying it and said he shouldn't say things that might depress others... that's true but what about the "you haven't suffered enough" thing ?? and he still believes every word he has said ahh :/ but oh well, I said it's all good and that I just dislike seeing him think/feel that way ..

 

[Willow]

I wish all people that hurt me would do the same ...

 

[kodoku]

I wish all people that hurt me would do the same ...

I think it's possible to find peace and accept the apology you never got if you try to understand that person or their situation at the time.. I'm sure you didn't deserve to be hurt, so maybe try to realize that these people had their own issues and just let it out on you when it easily could have been someone else.. and also remember that we are not perfect and we all hurt others and get hurt in return, it's just life.. all we can do is try to be kind...... (sorry for the long advice nobody asked for lol) and I hope you heal soon cutie <3

 

[Willow]

I think it's possible to find peace and accept the apology you never got if you try to understand that person or their situation at the time.. I'm sure you didn't deserve to be hurt, so maybe try to realize that these people had their own issues and just let it out on you when it easily could have been someone else.. and also remember that we are not perfect and we all hurt others and get hurt in return, it's just life.. all we can do is try to be kind...... (sorry for the long advice nobody asked for lol) and I hope you heal soon cutie <3

I can't forget though.

 

[kodoku]

I can't forget though.

trust in time <3 you will grow kinder and stronger, wiser as well.. there were so many things I was completely sure I'd never rise above yet I did even if it hurt like hell and took years....

 

[Willow]

trust in time <3 you will grow kinder and stronger, wiser as well.. there were so many things I was completely sure I'd never rise above yet I did even if it hurt like hell and took years....

I don't trust in time

 

[kodoku]

I don't trust in time

everything will be ok :P

 

[Willow]

everything will be ok :P

ahahahahahaha

 

[kodoku]

ahahahahahaha

don't laugh TT

 

[Willow]

don't laugh TT

nothing is okay I mean I failed my exams and I am extremely unhappy in my current life

 

[Abeamus]

It's good that he apologised and he'll probably change once he gets something he wants in life

 

[Willow]

@kodoku and the only thing that would have made me happy didn't happen

 

[kodoku]

@PurpleHime aw I'm sorry hun, I didn't know. But life is ever changing and time really does help... I don't think anything is set in stone for you yet, so I still think things will be ok <333

It's good that he apologised and he'll probably change once he gets something he wants in life

I hope...... it's just that he never gives anything or anyone a chance .. >_>

 

[Willow]

@PurpleHime aw I'm sorry hun, I didn't know. But life is ever changing and time really does help... I don't think anything is set in stone for you yet, so I still think things will be ok <333

Can't continue university and my mental health is really bad nowadays... I need to have more self-confidence but recent events doesn't help at all.

 

[Skinnny]

I am glad he did so

 

[kodoku]

Can't continue university and my mental health is really bad nowadays... I need to have more self-confidence but recent events doesn't help at all.

I'm sorry :(( any way you can get some emotional support and maybe even help? or at least take a break? and that's ok.... step by step, day by day..

 

[Willow]

I'm sorry :(( any way you can get some emotional support and maybe even help? or at least take a break? and that's ok.... step by step, day by day..

I have tried to make a break but it doesn't work with me. We are all different
I have no one that support me at the moment.

 

[kodoku]

I have tried to make a break but it doesn't work with me. We are all different
I have no one that support me at the moment.

I see. That kind of loneliness is cruel.. but I support you and like I said before, I really think you will find your way and that your future will shine. Just know it's not over, it's not too late and things can still all be ok.... you can write me if you wanna let things out too... please stay strong <3 (I must go get ready for work now blehh)

 

[Willow]

I see. That kind of loneliness is cruel.. but I support you and like I said before, I really think you will find your way and that your future will shine. Just know it's not over, it's not too late and things can still all be ok.... you can write me if you wanna let things out too... please stay strong <3 (I must go get ready for work now blehh)

I will try ... I don't promise anything though

 

[kinnie]

That's good that y'all finally talked things out and I'm glad he apologized to you. Seems like most people don't know how to do that these days, in person at least.