how do you move on from someone? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

what type of person are you? when someone breaks your heart or you need to let go of them for whatever reason... do you party and hang out a lot? do you spend time alone and cry & reflect? do you eat too much or lose weight.........? do you get together with others right away or wait for a long time....? stuff like that, just how do you react and how well do you continue with your life?

Spoiler: me

I don't forget people and I don't usually move on easily. I always think of everything that happens to me and everyone I meet a lot (too much).. I open up too easily sometimes I guess, to people who are unworthy of that trust.. I always hope and want to believe this time will be different...I get hurt, but at least I tried, right? To build something, to be happy, to find togetherness....... so yea I think I move on slowly and in loneliness, while overthinking and suffering more than the other person.. but I think there's beauty in that although people think I'm stupid and too emotional lol...... to sincerely try, to seek something beautiful, to bravely believe despite knowing you will most likely get hurt again hehe.....

 

[yeji]

moving on is hard. what I do is just try to take a lesson from everything and to really see things for how they are

 

[bulletproof]

Mmm it depends. If the mistake is small or it is the first one I might forgive, but at some point I might stop caring and that’s when I move on. I wasn’t truly hurt with a thing that would crush my trust, but even painful, I respect myself enough

Spoiler

I had a long relationship where I did this. I just stopped it after having the same arguments multiple times because there was no point, I felt out of love. So I didn’t suffer because it was something I wanted. I actually started to go out more.

 

[NASA]

I kinda just shut myself in and cry for weeks, and then just wallow in self pity for months until I find a distraction, eventually i'll be over it and I won't even realise but when I do it's just like

 

[Mew]

Continue as I was without them, giving myself time to grieve e the relationship in private but not letting it interfere with the rest of my life.

 

[Willow]

Good question. I don’t know the answer

 

[Tickita]

I journal and pray, remind myself why they had to be dropped so I don't make that mistake again, then shift my focus.