How Good Are You at Communicating? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Spoiler: me

I can't even tell if I am or not... in theory, I'm good at it - I listen to the other person and consider their feelings, I choose my words wisely, I remain calm, I don't accuse the other person and stick to the topic... my goal is never to fight, but to resolve the issue. However, I lack courage and in the end, I usually go along with what the other person says because I'm scared of conflict... but I think I'm wrong and I should stand up for myself more. If I'm right, the other person should either hear me out like I do for others or it's the end...

 

[Belgizen]

Well I am the Community Manager so
I suck at it irl
but I guess I can persuade people by writing very formal

 

[Ahsoka]

Spoiler

Ngl anytime Reo talks I get confused but Im going to blame that on him
Tbh Im not the best, Ive stayed away from social contact so much that Im a little out of practice​

 

[gongchan]

I'm not very great at it irl, I always get really nervous whenever talking to anyone I don't know very well. I get told I sound passive sometimes because I tend to speak formally when I'm more nervous, which is never my intention. It's just something I've always done.

 

[bulletproof]

so so
i graduated PR and Advertising but the PR part is not really for me... it depends where I am, if I am comfy in the subject etc
with my friends I am perfectly fine, I even taalk too much. With strangers, I'm shy at first, but I may become very friendly if the other person seems nice

 

[DAIRYQUEEN]

Pretty bad I'd say

 

[Discipline]

I could definitely be better, though I would say that I'm not too bad as it is. I just need to control my nervousness as I tend to become a little uncontrolled if I'm nervous

 

[Darkyoda47]

Not to brag, but I believe I get my points across

 

[VillageIdiot]

Tragic at tbh

 

[Sory]

I think I’m passable. I have often the role of mediator at work. Good for listening and calming both parties.

Personally, I tend to keep things inside. Sometimes it’s because I don’t want to bother with it right away. That sometimes leads to outbursts, which isn’t fair to the other person but it’s doesnt happen really often. Most of the time, I am quite good at expressing my feelings.

 

[igloo]

very mixed
i can come off as very abrasive
but i can also come off as very chill
but i think i'm pretty good at talking

 

[lexus]

I don't think I'm good at communicating, especially in real life. If I'm around people that I don't know, I won't say anything. It's not that I have anything against them. It's just that I don't know what to say and to keep a conversation going. I'm more a listener when I actually do talk to someone.

 

[Deleted member 74]

I like to think I’m good at it and maybe I’m somewhat decent online but irl I’m honestly terrible. I come off in a way where I can’t connect with people, I get misunderstood or disliked and I can see that clearly around me. I’m not stuck up as they say but I do think not many people are worth my time and knowing who I actually am, so I often remain distant.

 

[jasque]

I speak too low, and I don't like speaking at all

 

[JoanaIsHere]

I listen & ask a lot of questions, I also speak with confidence.

Spoiler

im surrounded by unthoughtful people so I get misunderstood a lot lol. I like to change topics fast too

 

[ripiasuju]

Im terrible with men excellent with women.

Probably due to the fact i have 9 sisters and grew up with no dad only 2 brothers one in prison most my life the other the youngest.

I mean i can talk to men if i have to like work but not great. With women i click rather easy even with way older.

 

[colorfulteardrop]

In irl I have no problems speaking. I talk alot with my friends or people that I know at least a little bit. I'm friendly, but I say what I think. People around me always know what I think about them (or at least when they want to know, I don't lie to them). If I like the person I'm talking with than I choose my words more wisely and I'm generelly speaking more friendly.

In my working life I also talk friendly, but firmly. I'm not shy talking about some uneasy things.

 

[Wingfrost]

I'm awful at it. Just recently I was visiting family and my aunt got upset with me because I was just listening to the conversation and not talking but... I'm just not a person who's comfortable with everyone listening to me and if that does happen I stumble over words and get really shaky. I wish I was good at communicating, I was a lot better at it when I was younger but I'll do everything I can nowadays to avoid communicating with anyone. A lot of people don't like that about me but I can't really help it lol.

 

[baekk]

Nope, not at all