18+ How important is sex in a relationship? (1 Viewer)

[bulletproof]

I feel like I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who's had a lot of one night stands like that's how much I hate the idea of it. It isn't that they've had a lot of sex that's the problem, it's just the idea that they don't have the same values as me. Like to them it's just some fun to do with whoever, whenever, but to me it's giving away something important and sharing something precious with someone who means nothing to you and i'm not sure how I would feel about sharing something so intimate with someone who puts no value in that same intimacy what so ever :/

I used to be the same and what's too much it's noo much, but if they can respect me and understand my vision on sex, their past is their past. If outside the bedroom they love me, how they got the experience in bed doesn't really bother me. In fact, a bit of experience might feel better Also, even someone with a lot of one night stands confirmed that they felt a connection and something special when they got a girlfriend

 

[NASA]

I used to be the same and what's too much it's noo much, but if they can respect me and understand my vision on sex, their past is their past. If outside the bedroom they love me, how they got the experience in bed doesn't really bother me. In fact, a bit of experience might feel better Also, even someone with a lot of one night stands confirmed that they felt a connection and something special when they got a girlfriend

Maybe how I feel about it will change when I get a little more experience just with relationships.. but considering I have little experience with relationships and no experience sexually I feel like it's just something I couldn't really get over atm

 

[bulletproof]

Maybe how I feel about it will change when I get a little more experience just with relationships.. but considering I have little experience with relationships and no experience sexually I feel like it's just something I couldn't really get over atm

yeah, your opinion might get over time and how you connect with that person
In the end, I think present is more important than the past so what they did is their business. It kinda makes you even more special knowing that a person chose you after so many tries

 

[mirella]

It‘s nice, but only after marriage ofc! Remember kids

Remember! No dating until marriage either, the first date will be the honeymoon

 

[kuro]

Remember! No dating until marriage either, the first date will be the honeymoon

arranged marriage for the win

also I can't imagine giving myself to someone else like that, I'd never have sex

 

[bulletproof]

Remember! No dating until marriage either, the first date will be the honeymoon

Even holding hands is forbidden eh?

 

[bulletproof]

arranged marriage for the win

also I can't imagine giving myself to someone else like that, I'd never have sex

Ehem +18 ehem

 

[Baechu]

that way you get to find out on your marriage day that your partner is terrible at it and you get to regret that decision for the rest of your life

That's the only right way to find out

Remember! No dating until marriage either, the first date will be the honeymoon

miri pure soul

 

[kuro]

Ehem +18 ehem

but that's not fair, there's middle schools having sex

 

[bulletproof]

but that's not fair, there's middle schools having sex

Well yeah that’s true, but I don’t want to be your bad influence

 

[mirella]

Even holding hands is forbidden eh?

Don't let me catch you making eye contact, either

miri pure soul

Indeed, I am a child of God

 

[kuro]

Well yeah that’s true, but I don’t want to be your bad influence

too late for that hahahahahaha

 

[Baechu]

too late for that hahahahahaha

too late and too young for this thread

 

[kuro]

too late and too young for this thread

shut up

 

[bulletproof]

Don't let me catch you making eye contact, either


Indeed, I am a child of God

Pffff nooo, I will meet my future husband at the church. Nothing until then, livin the pure life

 

[Baechu]

shut up

ok mom

 

[kuro]

ok mom

ur the one trying to kick me out for being underage

 

[Ahsoka]

Even holding hands is forbidden eh?

Didnt you know holding hands leads to pregnancy? Thats all you need to do, if you touch someones hand you need to get married as soon as possible or youll be commiting a sin

 

[kuro]

Didnt you know holding hands leads to pregnancy? Thats all you need to do, if you touch someones hand you need to get married as soon as possible or youll be commiting a sin

so I'm having my sister's child?

 

[Ahsoka]

so I'm having my sister's child?

No because it was Adam and Eve and not Adam and Steve Thats why people arent gay