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omg not out of the blue
so one day, imagine it goes like this

you two are just kinda standing around together, and you start to talk about idk what you're gonna do after work, and then you can mention something about liking to listen to music, and if he's normal, he'd be like "oh what type" and then boom, you start talking about music, and then either he'd naturally offer his favorite type, or you could ask, and from there you can move onto other subjects
but even asking "what u do after work" sounds so out of the blue :jisoosmh:
 

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but even asking "what u do after work" sounds so out of the blue :jisoosmh:
YOU WORK TOGETHER HOW IS IT OUT OF THE BLUE
like when your shift or whatever is almost done, you can be like "got any plans after this?" not in hook-uppy type of way, in a casual, "hey friend, I just want to get to know you" type of way
 

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YOU WORK TOGETHER HOW IS IT OUT OF THE BLUE
like when your shift or whatever is almost done, you can be like "got any plans after this?" not in hook-uppy type of way, in a casual, "hey friend, I just want to get to know you" type of way
why do I have to make the small talk, why cant he :jisoosmh: i will try my best but no promises, i'll try to do update threads LOL
 

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why do I have to make the small talk, why cant he :jisoosmh: i will try my best but no promises, i'll try to do update threads LOL
saying "why can't he" is petty :pandacop:
put yourself out there, making friends is easy if you take the first leap. chances are he doesn't know how to approach you either, and seeing you talk to him first would relive him of pressure, and like instant noodles, instant friends!

it always works out with me :yolk:
you just have to be brave enough for ONE comment, and conversation will pick up after

yes update :chickill:
 

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saying "why can't he" is petty :pandacop:
put yourself out there, making friends is easy if you take the first leap. chances are he doesn't know how to approach you either, and seeing you talk to him first would relive him of pressure, and like instant noodles, instant friends!

it always works out with me :yolk:
you just have to be brave enough for ONE comment, and conversation will pick up after

yes update :chickill:
thanks for your advice, i'll call you out if "and conversation will pick up after" doesn't happen tho
 

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thanks for your advice, i'll call you out if "and conversation will pick up after" doesn't happen tho
if he ignores you or says something like "nothing" if you ask about plans after work that's not on me :pandacop: you just have to put in more effort to get him to open up- never give up on someone. keep trying to talk to them and one day they'll either be annoyed/flattered enough to say something back to you if ignoring you is not working out for them
 

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if he ignores you or says something like "nothing" if you ask about plans after work that's not on me :pandacop: you just have to put in more effort to get him to open up- never give up on someone. keep trying to talk to them and one day they'll either be annoyed/flattered enough to say something back to you if ignoring you is not working out for them
wow that makes me not wanna do small talk at all cuz itd be more annoying so hed end up saying "dont ever talk to me again"
 

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wow that makes me not wanna do small talk at all cuz itd be more annoying so hed end up saying "dont ever talk to me again"
if he says that to you he's dumb :pandacop:
you are only slightly annoying and you are awesome to get to know

that's his loss- but you should never have a negative attitude about a friend from the start
 

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